— For 20 years, Modern Love has recorded people’s lives. The column has also had real-life reverberations on readers.

By Miya Lee
“So what have you learned about love?” people often ask when they find out I’m an editor of … Continue reading

Sex Advice With An Edge

By Miya Lee
“So what have you learned about love?” people often ask when they find out I’m an editor of … Continue reading

If your sex life feels like it’s missing something—be it connection, pleasure, or understanding—it might be time to consider … Continue reading

Traditionally, most of us have considered kink to be something outside the conventional ideas of sex, however, a study by the University of Brighton has suggested that as … Continue reading

By Devna Bose
It’s hard to miss the overflowing bowl of condoms at the entrance of the … Continue reading

By Ebony Leigh
Unless you’ve been off Netflix for the past week, you’ll know that all the entire world can think … Continue reading

By Lizz Schumer
If you find yourself … Continue reading

By Erin Bunch
My relationship recently hit a milestone described by Esther Perel as the “fatal erotic blow”—my partner and I

By Charles Runels, MD
During the month of September, Sexual Health Awareness Month, it may help to notice something: Men and their doctors have significantly more options to help with sexual function than do women and their … Continue reading


Sometimes asking questions about sex can be embarrassing—even for adults. Here are questions ranging from alcohol and sex to ejaculation disorders. Sometimes asking questions about sex can be embarrassing—even for adults. Here are ten common questions men ask their Men’s