BDSM is the acronym people use to refer to a whole variety of erotic practices involving dominance, submission, other forms of roleplay and more. Specifically: the B and D refer to bondage and discipline, and
Is ‘Death Grip Syndrome’ actually real
— And can it harm your penis?
Masturbation isn’t something any of us should be shy about, but when the mood strikes, some of us seize it a little too tightly.
… Continue readingThe Sexiest Year of My Life Involved Zero Sex
By Melissa Febos
A friend confided to me recently that she was burned out on dating. Cruising the apps in midlife felt humiliating, and she repeatedly confronted the same obstacles in her relationships.
I told her I had faced similar
6 Books About Nonmonogamy
— These titles can offer insight, whether you’re polycurious or already exploring.
By Hope Reese
When Mel Cassidy first became curious about nonmonogamy, there weren’t many helpful resources. Most of the books focused on the transition from monogamy to nonmonogamy,
No Kink-Shaming Allowed
— Why You Shouldn’t Judge Others’ Sexual Desires
Never yuck someone’s yum.
By Gigi Fong
Kink-shaming is the act of making someone feel less than or problematic for their sexual desires. To some, the act of your partner putting … Continue reading
Why Do Bi Women Keep Sleeping With Men?
By Katie Simon
“If I liked women, I’d never date a man again,” my friend Caroline said to me after a recent breakup. Bemoaning the straight dating scene, she seemed genuinely confused as to why someone bisexual—like me—would date men
How Project 2025 Seeks to Obliterate Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights
— The far-right blueprint would severely limit reproductive autonomy and access to reproductive healthcare, while turning back the clock on hard-won gains, both domestically and globally.
Seven Ways to Love Better
— Reading some 200,000 love stories has taught me a few lessons about love and life. Here are the ones that help me most.
By Daniel Jones
Two decades ago, on Oct. 31, 2004, a short note appeared on the … Continue reading
Stories That Changed Lives
— For 20 years, Modern Love has recorded people’s lives. The column has also had real-life reverberations on readers.
By Miya Lee
“So what have you learned about love?” people often ask when they find out I’m an editor of … Continue reading
Six Signs You Should Go To Sex Therapy
— Psycho-Sexologist and host of Audible’s ‘Sex Therapy’ podcast, Chantelle Otten, on how it could improve your life.
If your sex life feels like it’s missing something—be it connection, pleasure, or understanding—it might be time to consider … Continue reading