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July 5, 2010June 1, 2026

A Sizzlin Firecracker Of A Q&A Show — Podcast #216 — 07/05/10

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Hey sex fans,

I know it’s a holiday weekend here in Americanskiville, and I know I should be hanging out at the pool or barbeque instead of slingin’ my tits over this hot microphone, but I can’t help it. I gotta catch up on all the questions that have been piling up since our last Q&A session back in May. And there’s a shit-load of ‘em don’t cha know.

We hear from:

Mike says it takes him too long to get off.
Tomas is terrified he might be gay.
Astrit has questions about anal douching.
Connor has a overly sensitive dickhead.
Sharon is very suspicious about FSD, or female sexual dysfunction.
Glenda loves giving her husband blowjobs, but he doesn’t cum that way.
Angelo is a crossdresser and his wife pegs him in the ass.
Bill doesn’t like the advice I give some women.
Paul might be a teensy bit queer.
Josh has a BF that doesn’t like his foreskin.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 30, 2010June 1, 2026

SEX WISDOM with Mistress Matisse – Podcast #215 – 06/30/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today is the last day of my special Pride month spectacular. I promised you at the beginning of the month we’d have a kick-ass line up of guests and I kept that promise. We started off with a visit to the lair of the Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. Then we chatted with the exquisitely edgy photographer, Boots Bryant. Then the brilliant songsters, John & Cass, aka The Wet Spots, thrilled us with their sexy music. And now I have the pleasure of welcoming… the one and only, Mistress Matisse. I mean, holy cow; where else can you find such diverse and entertaining programming?

It’s true, my favorite sex columnist, blogger and podcaster, the internationally acclaimed Pro-Dom, Mistress Matisse, is in the house. She’s here as part of the SEX WISDOM podcast series, don’t cha know. This is the series where we chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

Matisse has someone special with her today, who she will introduce in a moment. But first one word of caution; you may hear some whining and whimpering in the background of today’s program. Those sound effects are provided by my dog, Ginger. I tell you this because I don’t want you to get the wrong idea and think that was me! Although god knows, the incredibly sexy and oh so entertaining Mistress Matisse makes even me, a big fat homo, weak in the knees.

Matisse and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
Her frank and no-hold-bared style of sex talk.
Becoming Mistress Matisse.
Class structures and sex work.
The Politics of Blowjobs.
If it’s not one thing, It’s your mother.
Bridging Pleasure and Danger.
Cisgender, transgender and the dangers of binary thinking.

Matisse invites you to enter her world and visit her on one or all of her websites HERE or HERE !

See Matisse & friends at work and play.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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June 28, 2010June 1, 2026

John Woods & Cass King Return – Podcast #214 – 06/28/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back at the Theater Off Jackson, here in Seattle, with John Woods & Cass King, the charming and oh so talented duo known as The Wet Spots. They are in town to produce their musical stage production called SHINE: A Burlesque Musical, which will run from July 8th through the 18th. We interrupt their rigorous rehearsals for more conversation for this The Erotic Mind podcast series.

I heard so many wonderful comments about last week’s show, especially the part where John & Cass shared one of their brand new songs, written expressly for the show. This week I prevail upon them to treat us to more and they comply with two new songs. It’s time for some spicy razzle-dazzle!

But wait; did you happen to miss Part 1 of this conversation that appeared here last week at this time? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #213 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

John & Cass and I discuss:

The gargantuan effort involved in producing a live show.
SHINE’s cast of 14
Pop burlesque and traditional burlesque styles.
The resurgence of classical burlesque — funny, sexy and subversive.
The differences between striptease and burlesque.
Boylesque and the gender divide.
The show’s director, Roger Benington.
Preversions of yesteryear.
The power of language.
Taking it to NYC

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 21, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of John Woods & Cass King – Podcast #213 – 06/21/10

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Hey sex fans,

HAPPY SOLSTICE EVERYONE! Damn, this year is flying by. It seems like it was only a couple of weeks ago that we were welcoming spring. Sheesh!

So remember how I promised you a knock-you-out line up of guests for our special Pride month shows? Well then, I got something for you today that’ll sure enough make you sit up and take note. In fact, we’re off on another audio field trip, one that will take us to the Theater Off Jackson, here in Seattle. We’re gonna visit with John Woods & Cass King, the exceptional talent behind the wildly popular and deliciously sexy vaudevillians known as The Wet Spots.

John & Cass are in town to produce their first full-fledged musical stage production called SHINE: A Burlesque Musical, which will run from JULY 8th through the 18th. They’ve invited us to drop by to visit with them between rehearsals. And I don’t mind telling you that I’m more than a little stage struck. I mean give me the roar of the greasepaint and the smell of the crowd and I’m a happy guy.

Besides the sparkling conversation, which brings a whole new dimension to The Erotic Mind podcast series, our guests will share with us one of their brand new songs, written expressly for the show. Get ready to be bowled over!

John & Cass and I discuss:

Vulgarity, filth and perversion? Maybe not so much!
The Wet Spots — a husband and wife team from the golden age of comedy.
How they got their act together.
The universal appeal of sex humor.
Their queer following.
The intensity of living and working together and their polly marriage.
Producing SHINE: A Burlesque Musical.
Their new songs for the show.
The creative process.
A musical about show business — a very old tradition.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 14, 2010June 1, 2026

Boots Bryant Returns – Podcast #212 – 06/14/10

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Hey sex fans,

The brilliant erotic photographer, Kevin Johnson, aka Boots Bryant, returns to The Erotic Mind podcast series today. This is Part 2 of our conversation and he shares more of what make his photography so edgy and compelling.

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here at this time last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive, right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #210 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Boots and I discuss:

His erotic writing pursuits.
The nature of erotic art.
The line between erotic art and porn.
His acclaimed Mask series and what it says about contemporary gay culture.
Sometimes needing to break from his immersion in sex.
The cost of being Boots Bryant.
Choosing his models.
His inspirations.
What the future holds for him and his work.

See more of some Boots’ stunning images below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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June 9, 2010June 1, 2026

Tonya Winter, Part 2 – Podcast #211 – 06/09/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today we return to the cavernous workspace of Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. This week’s audio pilgrimage marks Part 2 of our conversation and her highly anticipated return as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation as well as The Erotic Mind podcast series

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #209 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Tonya and I discuss:

Materials and design specifics.
Darlex, Spandex, PVC, Stretch Mesh.
Arm binders & sleep sacks.
Her kinky life.
The unique bondage experience using her materials.
Endorphins & adrenaline.
Power play — bottoming, topping and empathy.
The recreation and cathartic aspects of power play.
Her sexual heroes.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See more of some Tonya’s brilliant work below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 7, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Boots Bryant – Podcast #210 – 06/07/10

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Hey sex fans,

We continue our special Pride Month guest star extravaganza today. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a true original in the world of erotic photography, Kevin Johnson, aka Boots Bryant.

Boots is here as part of The Erotic Mind podcast series. In our conversations with noted erotic artists we’ve uncovered quite a bit about the creative process involved in this specialized art form. We’ve visited with numerous artists who create their art in a variety of media. We’ve discovered that the term “erotic art” covers a vast array of visual and literary expressions; some very graphic, others are subtlety suggestive. But all reflect the irrepressible spirit of the human sexual experience.

Boots is first and foremost a photographer, but he is also an erotic author. He shoots mainstream fashion stuff as well as his edgier stuff. But whatever he shoots you can be sure that it will pulse with enormous sexual energy. His photography can be both exquisitely beautiful and stunningly disturbing. And often his images are both of these things at the same time.

Boots and I discuss:

His nom de smut — Boots Bryant
The Mask Series.
His commissioned gigs.
The three new series he’s working on.
His unsettling early life.
Taking up photography as a kid.
How he began to shoot nudes.
Finding his models.
His music hobby.

See some of Boots’ stunning images below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 2, 2010June 1, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tonya Winter – Podcast #209 – 06/02/10

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Hey sex fans,

Ya’ll know June is Gay Pride month, right? And if you don’t believe me, ask President Obama. He made the official declaration again this year on May 28th, 2010. As you may also know, he is the first president in our glorious history to do so. So hurray for him! And an even bigger hurray for all us queer folk on this 41st anniversary of the birth of the modern gay rights movement.

I have a knock-you-out line up of guest for this special month. And to kick things off, so to speak, we take another audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming another Seattle-based personality, the veritable Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. We visit with her in her cavernous new workspace, don’t cha know.

And you should also know that you’re getting a double bang for your buck today, because Tonya is another twofer. She is here as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series as well as The Erotic Mind series. So yeah for that!

Tonya and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
Her new workspace in the SODO district of Seattle.
What accounts for her remarkable success.
Her unique designs.
Her humble kinky beginnings.
Her commitment to community service.
Her creative process.
Her secret grand plan.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See some of Tonya’s brilliant work.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 26, 2010June 1, 2026

More of ToyWithMe Sandy – Podcast #208 – 05/26/10

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Hey sex fans,

We welcome back our friend, Sandy, the self-acclaimed madam of the wonderfully wacky ToyWithMe website, for Part 2 of her appearance on this the SEX WISDOM podcast series. There is more of her signature wit and charming insight in store for you today, so look out!

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #206 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Sandy and I discuss:

Sex toys and health concerns.
Safe and body-friendly toys.
Toys that enhance a couple’s play.
The sex toy double standard.
Kids, sex and sex education.
The parents’ role in sex education.
Keeping things fresh and sexy in a long-term relationship.
Infusing passion by reading erotica aloud to each other.
Her inspirations.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 24, 2010June 1, 2026

Big Fat Q&A Show — Podcast #207 — 05/24/10

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Hey sex fans,

We take a bit of a break from The Erotic Mind podcast series today to attend to the unsightly buildup in both my voicemail and email in-boxes. And you know there’s nothing more embarrassing that unsightly buildup in your box, huh?