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What’s the difference between abstinence and celibacy?
— Many young people are abstaining from sex and call themselves celibate. But what’s the difference between abstinence vs celibacy?
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Once thought to be largely motivated by religious beliefs, celibacy has become a popular way for people … Continue reading
Let’s talk about sex — and repression — in America
— “Fierce Desires,” by Rebecca L. Davis, is a wide-ranging survey of how Americans have thought about and practiced and policed sex
Clashes over sexual morality in America are, in large part, about what is new and
You’ve Heard Of 69, But What’s 68?
— Your Guide To The Sex Position
By Amanda Chatel
There’s a good chance you’ve heard of the 69 position, maybe even before you could really wrap your brain around the concept. The position — two bodies on top of … Continue reading
How do you give your kids ‘The Talk’ in 2024?
— It’s World Sexual Health Day, and now’s the time to dig into the birds and the bees, debunk some myths, and look at how we approach Sex Ed through a 2024 lens.
By Sarah Gill
“Students are increasingly demanding … Continue reading
A College Student’s Guide to Safer Sex
— Tips from an Intimacy Coordinator
Learn about boundaries, consent, and pleasure with the C.R.I.S.P method.
By Ju Derraik
Sexual health is not just about testing and contraception, although there are plenty … Continue reading
The seven things only a sex therapist will tell you
— If your sex life is awkward, unenjoyable or simply non-existent, a sex therapist shares her top tips to improve intimacy
As a sex therapist, I make space for people to let go of what they think … Continue reading
Can Meditation Actually Save Your Sex Life?
— Bringing mindfulness to the bedroom
By Wendy Wisner
Sex and meditation are not two things we tend to think of as a pairing. One is typically quiet, relaxing, peaceful, and still. The other is, well…sex.
But meditation is not… Continue reading
The Easy Peasy Guide to Gender and Sexual Identity Terms
By Michael Krivich
Am I the only one who thinks that, like every day, there is a new term to describe an individual’s gender or sexual identity? Using a tired old sports analogy, keeping a score without a scorecard is
What doctors wish patients knew about pain during sex
Experiencing pain during or immediately after sexual activity—known as dyspareunia—is a condition affecting many women, yet it remains a topic often shrouded in silence. This medical issue, which can affect both physical and emotional well-being, is