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July 19, 2010June 1, 2026

Laura May Returns — Podcast #219 — 07/19/10

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Hey sex fans,

The woman with the voice like liquid sex, Laura May, joins us for Part 2 of our chat for this The Erotic Mind podcast series. As you recall from last week, our guest brings her erotica to us in a very unique form — as an audio diary. Laura May and I have such a good time together, why it’s almost sinful.

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation that appeared here at this time last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #218 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

And I am happy to report that Laura May will share another sizzlin’ selection of the fruit of her Erotic Mind. I tell ya folks, if her story doesn’t get you, her reading it aloud will!

Laura May and I discuss:
Keeping Laura May secret.
The creative process — her journal.
The differences between erotic art and porn.
The song she wrote for the show.
Her audience and the feedback she gets.
Getting warmed up to write and record.
Being enriched and empowered by reading, writing and speaking erotica.
The benefits of reading aloud.
Eroticizing the unerotic.
Advice for the aspiring erotic author.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll fine me in the podcast section, obviously, or just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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July 12, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Laura May — Podcast #218 — 07/12/10

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Hey sex fans,

After last week’s swell Q&A podcast, I am ready to get back to The Erotic Mind podcast series. As you know, in this series I chat with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the world in an effort to try to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form. And boy, do I have an extraordinary…and I might add smutty…guest for you to meet today. I’m delighted to welcome Laura May to the show.

Laura May is nothing if she’s not an innovator and she breaks new ground in this series too. She is the first of any of my guests to bring her erotica to us in the form of a diary. She is also the first of any of my guests to bring her erotica to her audience in audio form. Laura May is not only terribly interesting to chat with; she’s also amazingly funny. Brains, talent and a sense of humor; and she is just hitting her stride as an author. So look out world!

And to show you what I mean, Laura May will share with us a tantalizing selection of the fruit of her Erotic Mind. It’ll make you want to touch yourself impurely; I promise.

Laura May and I discuss:

Her erotic audio diary.
How she hit upon this unique idea.
The Creative process.
Adding a soundtrack.
The cutting edge of packaging erotica.
The joys of being rocked to sleep with a sexy story.
Establishing tension and character through voice inflection.
Meeting guys through Craigslist.
Writing under her nom de plume.
Her creative life as a child.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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July 7, 2010June 1, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Mistress Matisse – Podcast #217 – 07/07/10

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Hey sex fans,

Mistress Matisse is back with us again today and this week she’s here as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series. As you know, this series takes a look at the world of fetish sex and kink with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And who better to talk with about all of this than my favorite sex columnist, blogger and podcaster, the internationally acclaimed Pro-Dom, Mistress Matisse.

But wait; did you happen to miss Part 1 of our conversation that appeared here last week at this time? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #215 and VOILÀ! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Matisse and I discuss:

Her comfort with self-identifying as a sex worker.
The practice involved with becoming an upfront sexual being.
Unlearning early messages about sex.
The “problem” with porn.
Endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
Being dominant and submissive.
How the language has changed as kink moved mainstream.
BDSM — recreation, cathartic and her profession.
At this point in her career.
Being polyamorous.
Tips for looking for sex-positive and kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

See more of Matisse & friends at work and play.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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July 5, 2010June 1, 2026

A Sizzlin Firecracker Of A Q&A Show — Podcast #216 — 07/05/10

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Hey sex fans,

I know it’s a holiday weekend here in Americanskiville, and I know I should be hanging out at the pool or barbeque instead of slingin’ my tits over this hot microphone, but I can’t help it. I gotta catch up on all the questions that have been piling up since our last Q&A session back in May. And there’s a shit-load of ‘em don’t cha know.

We hear from:

Mike says it takes him too long to get off.
Tomas is terrified he might be gay.
Astrit has questions about anal douching.
Connor has a overly sensitive dickhead.
Sharon is very suspicious about FSD, or female sexual dysfunction.
Glenda loves giving her husband blowjobs, but he doesn’t cum that way.
Angelo is a crossdresser and his wife pegs him in the ass.
Bill doesn’t like the advice I give some women.
Paul might be a teensy bit queer.
Josh has a BF that doesn’t like his foreskin.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 30, 2010June 1, 2026

SEX WISDOM with Mistress Matisse – Podcast #215 – 06/30/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today is the last day of my special Pride month spectacular. I promised you at the beginning of the month we’d have a kick-ass line up of guests and I kept that promise. We started off with a visit to the lair of the Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. Then we chatted with the exquisitely edgy photographer, Boots Bryant. Then the brilliant songsters, John & Cass, aka The Wet Spots, thrilled us with their sexy music. And now I have the pleasure of welcoming… the one and only, Mistress Matisse. I mean, holy cow; where else can you find such diverse and entertaining programming?

It’s true, my favorite sex columnist, blogger and podcaster, the internationally acclaimed Pro-Dom, Mistress Matisse, is in the house. She’s here as part of the SEX WISDOM podcast series, don’t cha know. This is the series where we chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

Matisse has someone special with her today, who she will introduce in a moment. But first one word of caution; you may hear some whining and whimpering in the background of today’s program. Those sound effects are provided by my dog, Ginger. I tell you this because I don’t want you to get the wrong idea and think that was me! Although god knows, the incredibly sexy and oh so entertaining Mistress Matisse makes even me, a big fat homo, weak in the knees.

Matisse and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
Her frank and no-hold-bared style of sex talk.
Becoming Mistress Matisse.
Class structures and sex work.
The Politics of Blowjobs.
If it’s not one thing, It’s your mother.
Bridging Pleasure and Danger.
Cisgender, transgender and the dangers of binary thinking.

Matisse invites you to enter her world and visit her on one or all of her websites HERE or HERE !

See Matisse & friends at work and play.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 28, 2010June 1, 2026

John Woods & Cass King Return – Podcast #214 – 06/28/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back at the Theater Off Jackson, here in Seattle, with John Woods & Cass King, the charming and oh so talented duo known as The Wet Spots. They are in town to produce their musical stage production called SHINE: A Burlesque Musical, which will run from July 8th through the 18th. We interrupt their rigorous rehearsals for more conversation for this The Erotic Mind podcast series.

I heard so many wonderful comments about last week’s show, especially the part where John & Cass shared one of their brand new songs, written expressly for the show. This week I prevail upon them to treat us to more and they comply with two new songs. It’s time for some spicy razzle-dazzle!

But wait; did you happen to miss Part 1 of this conversation that appeared here last week at this time? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #213 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

John & Cass and I discuss:

The gargantuan effort involved in producing a live show.
SHINE’s cast of 14
Pop burlesque and traditional burlesque styles.
The resurgence of classical burlesque — funny, sexy and subversive.
The differences between striptease and burlesque.
Boylesque and the gender divide.
The show’s director, Roger Benington.
Preversions of yesteryear.
The power of language.
Taking it to NYC

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 21, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of John Woods & Cass King – Podcast #213 – 06/21/10

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Hey sex fans,

HAPPY SOLSTICE EVERYONE! Damn, this year is flying by. It seems like it was only a couple of weeks ago that we were welcoming spring. Sheesh!

So remember how I promised you a knock-you-out line up of guests for our special Pride month shows? Well then, I got something for you today that’ll sure enough make you sit up and take note. In fact, we’re off on another audio field trip, one that will take us to the Theater Off Jackson, here in Seattle. We’re gonna visit with John Woods & Cass King, the exceptional talent behind the wildly popular and deliciously sexy vaudevillians known as The Wet Spots.

John & Cass are in town to produce their first full-fledged musical stage production called SHINE: A Burlesque Musical, which will run from JULY 8th through the 18th. They’ve invited us to drop by to visit with them between rehearsals. And I don’t mind telling you that I’m more than a little stage struck. I mean give me the roar of the greasepaint and the smell of the crowd and I’m a happy guy.

Besides the sparkling conversation, which brings a whole new dimension to The Erotic Mind podcast series, our guests will share with us one of their brand new songs, written expressly for the show. Get ready to be bowled over!

John & Cass and I discuss:

Vulgarity, filth and perversion? Maybe not so much!
The Wet Spots — a husband and wife team from the golden age of comedy.
How they got their act together.
The universal appeal of sex humor.
Their queer following.
The intensity of living and working together and their polly marriage.
Producing SHINE: A Burlesque Musical.
Their new songs for the show.
The creative process.
A musical about show business — a very old tradition.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 14, 2010June 1, 2026

Boots Bryant Returns – Podcast #212 – 06/14/10

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Hey sex fans,

The brilliant erotic photographer, Kevin Johnson, aka Boots Bryant, returns to The Erotic Mind podcast series today. This is Part 2 of our conversation and he shares more of what make his photography so edgy and compelling.

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here at this time last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive, right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #210 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Boots and I discuss:

His erotic writing pursuits.
The nature of erotic art.
The line between erotic art and porn.
His acclaimed Mask series and what it says about contemporary gay culture.
Sometimes needing to break from his immersion in sex.
The cost of being Boots Bryant.
Choosing his models.
His inspirations.
What the future holds for him and his work.

See more of some Boots’ stunning images below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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June 9, 2010June 1, 2026

Tonya Winter, Part 2 – Podcast #211 – 06/09/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today we return to the cavernous workspace of Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. This week’s audio pilgrimage marks Part 2 of our conversation and her highly anticipated return as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation as well as The Erotic Mind podcast series

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #209 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Tonya and I discuss:

Materials and design specifics.
Darlex, Spandex, PVC, Stretch Mesh.
Arm binders & sleep sacks.
Her kinky life.
The unique bondage experience using her materials.
Endorphins & adrenaline.
Power play — bottoming, topping and empathy.
The recreation and cathartic aspects of power play.
Her sexual heroes.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See more of some Tonya’s brilliant work below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 7, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Boots Bryant – Podcast #210 – 06/07/10

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Hey sex fans,

We continue our special Pride Month guest star extravaganza today. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a true original in the world of erotic photography, Kevin Johnson, aka Boots Bryant.

Boots is here as part of The Erotic Mind podcast series. In our conversations with noted erotic artists we’ve uncovered quite a bit about the creative process involved in this specialized art form. We’ve visited with numerous artists who create their art in a variety of media. We’ve discovered that the term “erotic art” covers a vast array of visual and literary expressions; some very graphic, others are subtlety suggestive. But all reflect the irrepressible spirit of the human sexual experience.

Boots is first and foremost a photographer, but he is also an erotic author. He shoots mainstream fashion stuff as well as his edgier stuff. But whatever he shoots you can be sure that it will pulse with enormous sexual energy. His photography can be both exquisitely beautiful and stunningly disturbing. And often his images are both of these things at the same time.

Boots and I discuss: