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May 27, 2009May 25, 2026

Modern Hooker, Part 2 – Podcast #125 – 05/27/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more Sex EDGE-U-cation with Modern Hooker. This podcast series brings you chats and interviews with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Modern Hooker is a sex worker; but she’s also an activist, a poet, an educator, and the author of a kick-ass comic strip called, aptly enough, Modern Hooker.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this compelling discussion, look for last week’s podcast, #124, simply use my site’s search function; type in Podcast #124. And don’t forget to include the # sign.

Modern Hooker and I discuss:

How she protects her health and wellbeing and that of her clients.
How her sex work is empowering to her as a woman.
Legal ramifications of sex work.
Being an advocate/activist — SWOPUSA
Her sexual heroes.
Her advice for someone considering a career move to sex work.

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May 13, 2009May 25, 2026

Lady Lydia, Part 2 – Podcast #122 – 05/13/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back at Seattle’s premiere dungeon with the exciting and dangerous Lady Lydia, the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator.

This is a Sex EDGE-U-cation podcasts. In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this interesting and oh so edgy conversation, check out Podcast #120, simply use my site’s search function. Type in Podcast #120 and don’t forget the # sign.

Lady Lydia and I discuss:

Endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
Sub-space and Top-space.
Being “old school”.
Aftercare.
The difference between genital sex and power play.
Her sexual heroes.
Searching for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

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May 6, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady Lydia – Podcast #120 – 05/06/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we take an audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming another Seattle-based personality; the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator, Lady Lydia. We visit with her in her dungeon, don’t cha know.

Those of you who have been paying attention will know that Lady sd1 Lydia is the very first female voice in this series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. So yeah for that, huh?

In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

And Lady Lydia fits that description to a tee! She was even part of the recently concluded Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, so folks you know she hot!

Lydia and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is her 10-year career as a professional BDSM top here in the Emerald City. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady Lydia and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
How BDSM and kink permeates her professional and personal life.
BDSM — safe and consensual.
Her role as the star of her own line of DVDs.
Her activities, including her double sessions and private lessons.
Therapeutic BDSM.
Some of the scenes she gets into.

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April 15, 2009May 24, 2026

Max, Part 2 — Podcast #114 — 04/15/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, Max, the Seattle-based bondage artist, educator and Dom. This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. As you know, this series is all about the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Max and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is his polyamorous life with Mistress Matisse and the oh so charming Lorelei.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of our conversation, look for last week’s podcast, #113 on the PODCAST PAGE at the top of this page. Or simply use the site’s search function. Type in podcast #113; don’t forget to include the # sign.

Just a quick aside…as most of you know I was one of the many presenters at the Seattle Fetish & Fantasy Festival this past weekend. When I wasn’t teaching I had an opportunity to sit in on a couple of the other fine workshops offered by some of the Northwest’s most illustrious kink educators. And I’m here to tell you, as delightful and informative and Max is in this podcast conversation, this medium does not compare to Max in front of a live audience with a length of rope in one hand and beautiful Lorelei in the other. They are phenomenal together, and not to be missed.

Max and I discuss:

The role of endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
BDSM as both recreation and catharsis.
Polyamory, a working definition.
Poly-fidelity and cohabitation.
Developing a vocabulary for discussing poly structures.
Managing a poly relationship — jealousy and compersion.

Be sure to visit Max at his website HERE!

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March 25, 2009May 24, 2026

KinkedKenny, Part 2 — Podcast #110 — 03/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, that bad boy of kink photography, Kenny Lee, a.k.a. KinkedKenny. Kenny is also an ardent practitioner of the lifestyle he so skillfully captures in his photography.

kenny02 This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. As you know, this series is all about the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.
If you somehow missed Part 1 of conversation, look for last week’s podcast, #108 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE. Or simply use the search function. Type in podcast #108; don’t forget to include the # sign.

Kenny and I discuss:

The intersection between his personal and professional life.
BDSM as both recreation and catharsis.
Melding graphics and photography to create new art.
Digitally capturing real men playing out their fantasies.
His future plans.
His sexual heroes.

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March 9, 2009May 23, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Emerald — Podcast #106 — 03/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an exceptionally delicious show in store for you today. I have the pleasure of introducing you to one of the rising stars in the erotica firmament. emerald_1 Her name is Emerald. (Don’t you just love how some folks get away with using only one name? I gotta tell you that I tried that once myself. I used refer to myself simply as — Dick. Well, you can see right away how many problems there was with that moniker, huh?)

Anyway, the ever-charming and oh so smutty Emerald joins us as my latest guest in this series of interviews I’m doing with noted erotic artists called The Erotic Mind. As you know, we’ve been chatting with these ingenious people in hopes of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

And as a special treat, Emerald will share with us a very delectable selection from the fruit of her Erotic Mind. This will be of particular interest to the edgier folks in our audience.

To give you a little foretaste of what you are in for today, here’s Emerald writing about herself on her site: “Emerald is an erotic fiction author and general advocate for human sexuality as informed by her deep appreciation of the beauty, value, and intrinsic nature of sexuality and its holistic relation to life.”

Emerald and I discuss:

• Her philosophy about human sexuality
• Her nom de plume, and why.
• Her writing career and how it began.
• Creating petite works of literary art, one word at a time.
• Being a sex worker and its impact on her writing.

Emerald serves up a juicy morsel of her own erotica.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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March 4, 2009May 23, 2026

Scott Daddy, Part 2 – Podcast #105 – 03/04/09

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Hey sex fans,

nasty_pig_chaps2-credit_325x490 We’re back with my friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy; the BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom extraordinaire, don’t cha know. This, of course, is Part 2 my of my chat with Scott in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. This series of interviews takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. It touches on topics both familiar and exotic. And we’ll be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amusing yet provocative discussion look for last week’s podcast, #103 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE in the sidebar of my site. Or simply use the search function; type in the key words: “podcast #103”. Don’t forget to include the # sign.

Scott and I discuss:

How he began his career as a Dom.
His public lectures, demonstrations and presentations.
Working with both men and women.
Mentoring newbees to the scene.
His sexual heroes.

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BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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February 11, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Dart – Podcast #99 – 02/11/09

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Hey sex fans,

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT, SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT! Today’s podcast marks my 2nd anniversary of bringing you these audio editions of my sex advice column.

6a00e54fb949ec8834010536ad8b6e970b-800wi To celebrate this milestone I’ve decided to launch a new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.

In this series we will take a look at the fascinating world of kink and fetish sex. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I guarantee that our investigation will be thought-provoking, stimulating and very informative. And I can say that with such confidence because we will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

This new series, which premieres today, will continue to appear on Wednesdays. However, my regular weekly podcast will continue on Mondays.

I am exceptionally pleased to welcome my first guest in this series; the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom. My inaugural guest is none other than the man they call Dart. You know you’re good when you only have to use one name.

Dart and I discuss:

Working definitions for Power Play, BDSM, Fetish and Kink.
Why would “normal” people get involved in this stuff.
The role of endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
Being both Dom and Sub.
The pain/pleasure edge.
Cathartic and recreational aspects of Power Exchange.

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February 2, 2009May 23, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Jolene Hui – Podcast #97 – 02/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today’s show begins with Miss Dolly Parton singin’ her little heart out. I know what you’re thinking; why that particular song, Dr Dick? Well I’ll tell ya! I’m setting the mood for my very special guest. Today I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to one of the bad girls of erotic fiction. I am honored to have with me — the ever beautiful and oh so talented Jolene Hui.

bangs-clean As you know, we’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists from all over the globe in this series of interviews I’m calling: The Erotic Mind. We’re looking to uncover something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

Jolene is a journalist, a playwright and a prolific author of literary and erotic fiction and just about anything else her fingers feel like typing. She’s as sizzlin’ hot as her fiction and has a wicked sense of humor, as you will soon discover. But wait there’s more! Jolene treats us to a very explicit and oh so appetizing morsel from one of her short stories. Believe me sex fans; this is not to be missed!

Jolene and I discuss:

Why she writes under her real name.
Her successful career and how it began.
Where she finds her inspiration.
Building the sexual tension in erotic fiction.
Writing for different audiences.

And as promised, Jolene serves up a juicy selection of her own erotica.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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January 12, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #94 — 01/12/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have a really delectable show for you today. We have a big hot juicy load of stimulating questions from the sexually worrisome. And I respond with an equal number of dazzling, engaging and oh so informative responses! Hey, it’s what I do.