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August 5, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Chris Yosef – Podcast #142 – 08/05/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation, people! As you know, this podcast series takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. And today’s guest adds his unique voice to the chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that we have heard from so far.

I have the honor of welcoming an extraordinary fellow, Chris Yosef. He and I will be delving into some of the same things I’ve discussed with others in this series — BDSM, polyamory, porn, spirituality and love — but he speaks from his perspective of a sub in a Dom/sub relationship. And that’s a first for this series.

You won’t want to miss a minute of this exceptional conversation!

Chris and I discuss:

What appears to be a jumble of contradictions in his life.
His immersion in Kabbalah.
Being a collared boy in a D/s relationship.
Safe/Sane/Consensual Power-play.
His public advocacy for RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).
Being a pro-sub, at least in the movies.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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July 6, 2009May 26, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Ashley Lister — Podcast #136 — 07/06/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an outstanding show in store for you today. We return to our roots in this series of podcasts called The Erotic Mind. After mining a very rich vein of visual artists over the past several weeks, we come back to the realm of the written word and how this series got started.

arlbandwswingersfullcolour Today I have the pleasure of introducing you to an extremely talented and prolific author from the UK, Ashley Lister. He has a wicked sense of humor and a big fat uncut…erotic mind worthy of our serious investigation, don’t cha know.

Devoted fans of written erotica will, no doubt, be familiar with my guest; his work is freakin’ everywhere. He writes fiction, nonfiction and poetry. He’s a teacher, columnist, reviewer and contributor at The Erotic Readers & Writers Association. In fact, Ashley has an unparalleled pedigree for this series; and we’re so grateful that he’s decided to “slum it” with us.

For more of Ashley, be sure to visit his site HERE!

Ashley and I discuss:

His prolific output.
Writing under his own name.
Building sexual tension in his fiction.
What sparks the images in his erotica.
Skillfully writing in different voices.
The differences between romance literature and erotica.

As a special treat, Ashley shares with us two mouth-watering pieces of the fruit of his Erotic Mind. The first is humorous erotic verse. The second will be of particular interest to the many swingers in my audience. Don’t miss this people!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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June 24, 2009May 26, 2026

Monk, Part 2 – Podcast #133 – 06/24/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more fun with Dick and Jane Monk of TwistedMonk.com. And we’re not just having fun either, no siree! (Although you’d never know it from all the giggling going on.) No buckaroos, this is actually some serious Sex EDGE-U-cation.

meatloaf You see, my conversation with Monk is part of our look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. As you know I’m chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world in the hopes of gaining some perspective on edgy sex. And that’s why this exceptional bondage performance artist is here again this week.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazingly insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #131, use my site’s search function. Just type in Podcast #131 and don’t forget the # sign.

Monk and I discuss:

The edgier side of Monk.
The versatility of human sexual response.
The cultural conflicts of kink.
His professional Dom persona.
His sexual heroes.
His polyamorous private life.

Monk invites you to enter his world and visit him at his website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 17, 2009May 26, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Monk – Podcast #131 – 06/17/09

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Hey sex fans,

Buckle your seatbelts, my friends, because Monk is in the house. That’s Monk of TwistedMonk.com, don’t cha know. He is located here in Seattle, but his reputation, well that’s international. You’ve seen him all over the freakin’ internet — on his websites, on youtube and twitter; you’ve seen him at the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival; and today you see…well hear him right here on Dr Dick’s Sex Advice. Monk is the consummate bondage performance artist, who is nearly as thrilling to listen to, as he is to watch.

APR07COTM This incredibly sexy and oh so entertaining bondage artist adds his voice to this Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know, in these podcasts, we’re looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Oh, and here’s something you should know. Monk is gonna try and convince us that Twisted Monk does not describe him, but rather is simply the name of his company. Well I beg to differ, sex fans. I mean, please! As you will soon hear, this boy is as twisted as his company’s name implies.

Monk and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest’s history as a hotbed of perversion.
Twisted Monk, the oldest and largest bondage rope factory in the world.
His mentor, Max of BondageLessons.com.
How he came to be know and Monk.
Monk the performance artist and The Bindings Project.
The high of being the bondage top.

Monk invites you to enter his world HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 10, 2009May 25, 2026

John and Deanna, Part 2 – Podcast #129 – 06/10/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we’re back at Seattle’s very own Sharma Center with its oh so charming Executive Directors, John and Deanna. And we’re all together to bring you Part 2 of our chat about Swinging, Polyamory and Open Relationships.

inkbutt If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #127 or you can use my site’s search function. Just type in Podcast #127 and don’t forget the # sign.

This is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. Where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

John and Deanna and I discuss:

The importance of communication in swinging and polyamory.
Some advice for novice swingers.
The prevalence of female bisexuality in the lifestyle.
Fetish expressions in swinging.
Dealing with jealousy.
Their sexual heroes.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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June 3, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with John and Deanna – Podcast #127 – 06/03/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we take another audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of introducing the Co-Executive Directors of the amazing Sharma Center right here in beautiful downtown Seattle.

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John and Deanna welcome us to the center, show us around, talk about themselves, their lives together; we discuss polyamory, swinging and the sex positive mission of the Sharma Center.

This oh so charming and insightful couple add their voices to this Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know, in these podcasts, we’re taking a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. And we are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And John and Deanna fit that bill exceptionally well.

John and Deanna and I discuss:

Swinging, Polyamory and Open Relationships; what’s alike about them and what’s different.
Some common terms used by those in the lifestyle.
The education and enrichment mission of the Sharma Center.
Coming out as a sexual minority.
Her activities, including her double sessions and private lessons.
Personal morality v. the morality of the dominant culture.

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June 1, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #126 — 06/01/09

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Hey sex fans,

From the looks of things, everyone is enjoying The Erotic Mind series as much as me. I love spending my Mondays chatting with these brilliant artists and authors. But while I’m busy doing that, my in-box and voicemail gets clogged with messages from the sexually worrisome looking for advice. And ya know what? They’ve come to the right palace; and so have you. Today’s show is all Q&A.

bw_feet11 So make yourself comfortable it’s gonna be a very interesting ride.

Jim is a cuckold. Just relax and enjoy the torture, you pervert!
Lost Boy doesn’t know love from a hole in his head.
David and his lovely wife want to try a 3-way.
Woody wants some hot backdoor action with his wife, but there’s a problem!
Then there’s a whole bunch of quickies.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all of my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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May 27, 2009May 25, 2026

Modern Hooker, Part 2 – Podcast #125 – 05/27/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more Sex EDGE-U-cation with Modern Hooker. This podcast series brings you chats and interviews with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Modern Hooker is a sex worker; but she’s also an activist, a poet, an educator, and the author of a kick-ass comic strip called, aptly enough, Modern Hooker.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this compelling discussion, look for last week’s podcast, #124, simply use my site’s search function; type in Podcast #124. And don’t forget to include the # sign.

Modern Hooker and I discuss:

How she protects her health and wellbeing and that of her clients.
How her sex work is empowering to her as a woman.
Legal ramifications of sex work.
Being an advocate/activist — SWOPUSA
Her sexual heroes.
Her advice for someone considering a career move to sex work.

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May 15, 2009July 5, 2026

To Have and To Hold

Hey sex fans,

I am so glad we finally got the new Review Site rockin’ n rollin’, because the Dr Dick Review Crew has been itchin’ to update you on a whole bunch of new products.

Have you visited Dr Dick’s Set Toy Reviews yet? If not, what the hell are you waiting for? It’s so cool; easy to navigate, easy to search and each product has it’s own review. You can even search for all the reviews done by your favorite Review Crew member. CHECK IT OUT!

This week’s Review Crew include: Jada and Jack & Karen.

Jada is here with a Jelique product.
Tasty Twist Oral-Sex Balm $10.95

Jada: “I love this new site, Dr Dick’s Set Toy Reviews; I’m so proud to be part of this effort.

I would like to introduce you to an interesting product — Tasty Twist Oral-Sex Balm. It’s a creamy lotion one applies to one’s genitals, or the genitals of a partner to flavor them up and make them tingle.

I should say from the outset that I would have never considered using this product had I seen it in the store. I would have simply passed it by. You see, I like the way I taste and smell when I am aroused.

I used Tasty Twist Oral-Sex Balm first by myself. It has an intense butter cream scent. It has a pleasant enough taste with a hint of mint. I licked some off my finger first before I put some around my labia. The hint of mint comes from the menthol in the ingredients. This, I assume, is also what adds the tingling effect.

It tastes like icing on a cake. It’s sweet to the tongue, but it also has a bit of a chemical aftertaste. Maybe that’s the mineral oil base; I don’t know. What I do know for sure is that, because of the mineral oil base, this product is not compatible with latex condoms. But I believe that Tasty Twist Oral-Sex Balm is geared toward masturbation and oral sex.

Jack & Karen are here with another Jelique product.

Tooshies $8.95

Karen: “I’m a new-cumer to anal. Sometimes it takes me a while to warm up to this particular activity.”
Jack: “I love her for trying anal. She did it just to please me.”
Karen: “Well, that and it feels great once I get over the first hurtle.”
Jack: “We were lucky enough to score Tooshies to review. It’s a minty flavored Benzocaine based numbing gel formulated to ease the initial discomfort of anal sex.”
Karen: “We’ve been looking around for such a product, but didn’t know which one to choose. Or if such gels and or lube worked.”
Jack: “Tooshies works!”
Karen: “It does; that’s for sure. It’s just the thing I need to boost my confidence and to desensitize my rectum. I just have to say, Benzocaine is not for everyone. It’s pretty common for some people to have an allergic reaction to it. I suggest you try a little dab on the inside of your elbow first to see if you have a reaction or not. The inside of your elbow is not the same thing as the mucus membranes in you rectum, but you’ll have a better sense of things nonetheless.”
Jack: “And while we’re pointing out cautions, all you tops out there better wear a condom when your bottom is using Tooshies. No, it’s not for safe sex reasons! It’s because the Benzocaine will get on your dick during the fuck and you’ll experience a numbing sensation on your rod, and that ain’t good. Or at least it wasn’t for me.”

May 13, 2009May 25, 2026

Lady Lydia, Part 2 – Podcast #122 – 05/13/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back at Seattle’s premiere dungeon with the exciting and dangerous Lady Lydia, the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator.

This is a Sex EDGE-U-cation podcasts. In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this interesting and oh so edgy conversation, check out Podcast #120, simply use my site’s search function. Type in Podcast #120 and don’t forget the # sign.

Lady Lydia and I discuss: