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June 10, 2009May 25, 2026

John and Deanna, Part 2 – Podcast #129 – 06/10/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we’re back at Seattle’s very own Sharma Center with its oh so charming Executive Directors, John and Deanna. And we’re all together to bring you Part 2 of our chat about Swinging, Polyamory and Open Relationships.

inkbutt If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #127 or you can use my site’s search function. Just type in Podcast #127 and don’t forget the # sign.

This is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. Where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

John and Deanna and I discuss:

The importance of communication in swinging and polyamory.
Some advice for novice swingers.
The prevalence of female bisexuality in the lifestyle.
Fetish expressions in swinging.
Dealing with jealousy.
Their sexual heroes.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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June 3, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with John and Deanna – Podcast #127 – 06/03/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we take another audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of introducing the Co-Executive Directors of the amazing Sharma Center right here in beautiful downtown Seattle.

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John and Deanna welcome us to the center, show us around, talk about themselves, their lives together; we discuss polyamory, swinging and the sex positive mission of the Sharma Center.

This oh so charming and insightful couple add their voices to this Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know, in these podcasts, we’re taking a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. And we are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And John and Deanna fit that bill exceptionally well.

John and Deanna and I discuss:

Swinging, Polyamory and Open Relationships; what’s alike about them and what’s different.
Some common terms used by those in the lifestyle.
The education and enrichment mission of the Sharma Center.
Coming out as a sexual minority.
Her activities, including her double sessions and private lessons.
Personal morality v. the morality of the dominant culture.

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June 1, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #126 — 06/01/09

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Hey sex fans,

From the looks of things, everyone is enjoying The Erotic Mind series as much as me. I love spending my Mondays chatting with these brilliant artists and authors. But while I’m busy doing that, my in-box and voicemail gets clogged with messages from the sexually worrisome looking for advice. And ya know what? They’ve come to the right palace; and so have you. Today’s show is all Q&A.

bw_feet11 So make yourself comfortable it’s gonna be a very interesting ride.

Jim is a cuckold. Just relax and enjoy the torture, you pervert!
Lost Boy doesn’t know love from a hole in his head.
David and his lovely wife want to try a 3-way.
Woody wants some hot backdoor action with his wife, but there’s a problem!
Then there’s a whole bunch of quickies.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all of my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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May 27, 2009May 25, 2026

Modern Hooker, Part 2 – Podcast #125 – 05/27/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more Sex EDGE-U-cation with Modern Hooker. This podcast series brings you chats and interviews with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Modern Hooker is a sex worker; but she’s also an activist, a poet, an educator, and the author of a kick-ass comic strip called, aptly enough, Modern Hooker.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this compelling discussion, look for last week’s podcast, #124, simply use my site’s search function; type in Podcast #124. And don’t forget to include the # sign.

Modern Hooker and I discuss:

How she protects her health and wellbeing and that of her clients.
How her sex work is empowering to her as a woman.
Legal ramifications of sex work.
Being an advocate/activist — SWOPUSA
Her sexual heroes.
Her advice for someone considering a career move to sex work.

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May 13, 2009May 25, 2026

Lady Lydia, Part 2 – Podcast #122 – 05/13/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back at Seattle’s premiere dungeon with the exciting and dangerous Lady Lydia, the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator.

This is a Sex EDGE-U-cation podcasts. In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this interesting and oh so edgy conversation, check out Podcast #120, simply use my site’s search function. Type in Podcast #120 and don’t forget the # sign.

Lady Lydia and I discuss:

Endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
Sub-space and Top-space.
Being “old school”.
Aftercare.
The difference between genital sex and power play.
Her sexual heroes.
Searching for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

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May 6, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady Lydia – Podcast #120 – 05/06/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we take an audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming another Seattle-based personality; the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator, Lady Lydia. We visit with her in her dungeon, don’t cha know.

Those of you who have been paying attention will know that Lady sd1 Lydia is the very first female voice in this series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. So yeah for that, huh?

In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

And Lady Lydia fits that description to a tee! She was even part of the recently concluded Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, so folks you know she hot!

Lydia and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is her 10-year career as a professional BDSM top here in the Emerald City. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady Lydia and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
How BDSM and kink permeates her professional and personal life.
BDSM — safe and consensual.
Her role as the star of her own line of DVDs.
Her activities, including her double sessions and private lessons.
Therapeutic BDSM.
Some of the scenes she gets into.

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April 15, 2009May 24, 2026

Max, Part 2 — Podcast #114 — 04/15/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, Max, the Seattle-based bondage artist, educator and Dom. This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. As you know, this series is all about the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Max and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is his polyamorous life with Mistress Matisse and the oh so charming Lorelei.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of our conversation, look for last week’s podcast, #113 on the PODCAST PAGE at the top of this page. Or simply use the site’s search function. Type in podcast #113; don’t forget to include the # sign.

Just a quick aside…as most of you know I was one of the many presenters at the Seattle Fetish & Fantasy Festival this past weekend. When I wasn’t teaching I had an opportunity to sit in on a couple of the other fine workshops offered by some of the Northwest’s most illustrious kink educators. And I’m here to tell you, as delightful and informative and Max is in this podcast conversation, this medium does not compare to Max in front of a live audience with a length of rope in one hand and beautiful Lorelei in the other. They are phenomenal together, and not to be missed.

Max and I discuss:

The role of endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
BDSM as both recreation and catharsis.
Polyamory, a working definition.
Poly-fidelity and cohabitation.
Developing a vocabulary for discussing poly structures.
Managing a poly relationship — jealousy and compersion.

Be sure to visit Max at his website HERE!

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March 25, 2009May 24, 2026

KinkedKenny, Part 2 — Podcast #110 — 03/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, that bad boy of kink photography, Kenny Lee, a.k.a. KinkedKenny. Kenny is also an ardent practitioner of the lifestyle he so skillfully captures in his photography.

kenny02 This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. As you know, this series is all about the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.
If you somehow missed Part 1 of conversation, look for last week’s podcast, #108 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE. Or simply use the search function. Type in podcast #108; don’t forget to include the # sign.

Kenny and I discuss:

The intersection between his personal and professional life.
BDSM as both recreation and catharsis.
Melding graphics and photography to create new art.
Digitally capturing real men playing out their fantasies.
His future plans.
His sexual heroes.

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March 9, 2009May 23, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Emerald — Podcast #106 — 03/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an exceptionally delicious show in store for you today. I have the pleasure of introducing you to one of the rising stars in the erotica firmament. emerald_1 Her name is Emerald. (Don’t you just love how some folks get away with using only one name? I gotta tell you that I tried that once myself. I used refer to myself simply as — Dick. Well, you can see right away how many problems there was with that moniker, huh?)

Anyway, the ever-charming and oh so smutty Emerald joins us as my latest guest in this series of interviews I’m doing with noted erotic artists called The Erotic Mind. As you know, we’ve been chatting with these ingenious people in hopes of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

And as a special treat, Emerald will share with us a very delectable selection from the fruit of her Erotic Mind. This will be of particular interest to the edgier folks in our audience.

To give you a little foretaste of what you are in for today, here’s Emerald writing about herself on her site: “Emerald is an erotic fiction author and general advocate for human sexuality as informed by her deep appreciation of the beauty, value, and intrinsic nature of sexuality and its holistic relation to life.”

Emerald and I discuss:

• Her philosophy about human sexuality
• Her nom de plume, and why.
• Her writing career and how it began.
• Creating petite works of literary art, one word at a time.
• Being a sex worker and its impact on her writing.

Emerald serves up a juicy morsel of her own erotica.

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March 4, 2009May 23, 2026

Scott Daddy, Part 2 – Podcast #105 – 03/04/09

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Hey sex fans,

nasty_pig_chaps2-credit_325x490 We’re back with my friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy; the BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom extraordinaire, don’t cha know. This, of course, is Part 2 my of my chat with Scott in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. This series of interviews takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. It touches on topics both familiar and exotic. And we’ll be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amusing yet provocative discussion look for last week’s podcast, #103 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE in the sidebar of my site. Or simply use the search function; type in the key words: “podcast #103”. Don’t forget to include the # sign.

Scott and I discuss: