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Sex EDGE-U-cation with Scott Daddy – Podcast #103 – 02/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

port_41bw_516x776Today I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy, to those who know and love him.  (So that’s why I call him Sir.)  Just kidding!

Scott is a BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom all rolled into that most charming package.  And he has the most wonderful sense of humor, as you will soon discover.  Scott is my second guest in this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.

Through this series we’ll take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic.  And I will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

This new series will continue to appear on Wednesdays.  My regular weekly podcast, which often contains The Erotic Mind interviews, will continue on Mondays.

Scott and I discuss:

  • The meaning of Power Play.
  • Kink — behavior outside the social norm.  But how decides the norm?
  • Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
  • Working definitions for: Negotiation, Safeword, Scene and Aftercare.

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The Erotic Mind of James Lear — Podcast #102 — 02/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an exceptional show in store for you.  Today, we return to my series of interviews with noted erotic artists called The Erotic Mind, As you know, we’ve been chatting with these ingenious people in hopes of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

dsc02463Sex fans, I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the reigning king of gay erotic fiction.  No wait, I need to correct that.  My guest is actually the reigning king of all erotica, the amazing James Lear.

James is a prolific author and novelist.  His work is recognized all over the world as topnotch.  In fact, he was named “Best Writer” at the 2008 Erotic Awards.  No mean feat that, I can tell ya.

And as a special treat, James will share with us a juicy morsel of the delectable fruit of his Erotic Mind.   You don’t want to miss this, people!

James and I discuss:

  • His nom de plume?
  • His very successful career and how it began.
  • His diverse audience of both women and men, gay and straight.
  • Who is writing gay erotic fiction these days.
  • The Slash Fiction phenomenon.
  • Breaking down traditional writing niches.
  • Avoiding clichés when creating sex scenes.

And like I said, James serves up a juicy bit of his own erotica.

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Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #100 — 02/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

I am delighted to welcome back my distinguished guest, Dart, for Part 2 of our chat about Power Exchange, BDSM and role playing .  He is the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom.

6a00e54fb949ec88340105365c49d3970c-800wiThis is my new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.   It’s all about the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink and alternative lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic.  We’ll chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazing interview, look for Podcast #99 on Dr Dick’s Podcasts page.  Look for the tab at the top of the page.

Dart and I discuss:

  • Working definitions for Scene, Negotiation, Safe Word.
  • Learning to embrace one’s kinks and fetishes.
  • How he got his start as a Dom.
  • Puppy play and other role-play.
  • What he’s into as a Dom.
  • Tips for the novice on approaching the BDSM scene.
  • His sexual heroes.

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Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #93 — 01/05/09

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Hey sex fans,

I’M BACK! Did ya’ll have a brilliant holiday season? I sure hope so.

I enjoyed my brief respite from podcasting, but I realize I can’t stay away long. Besides missing you when we’re not together, my in-box gets all clogged up with questions and comments that cry out for my attention.

So let’s start off the New Year with our usual question and answer format. Because I have a hot load of very stimulating questions.

  • Todd is a budding kinkster.
  • Seattle asks about the “etiquette” involved in public sex.
  • Nanine has saggy tits and is afraid no one will love her.
  • ME says his partner can’t get off no matter how hard he tries!
  • Jimmy is confused. Is he a top or bottom; dom or sub?

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Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #90 — 12/01/08

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Hey sex fans,

I have a whopper of a show for you today. We return to our usual question and answer format this week, because I have a steamy load of stimulating questions from all overt the freakin’ place. And I respond with an equal number of cheeky, charming and oh so enlightening responses! Hey, it’s what I do.

  • Joe wants to know about Hepatitis-B and cock sucking.
  • Donna and her BF wanna start bumpin’ parts.  But where to begin?
  • Gregg thinks he needs a sex coach.  I think he does too.
  • Naf wants to top, but he is a little short of wood!
  • Anonymous wants some tips on ball stretching.

 

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Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #82 — 09/29/08

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Hey sex fans,

I have a really delectable show for you today. We have a big load of stimulating questions from the sexually worrisome. And I respond with an equal number of stunning, appealing and oh so informative responses! Hey, it’s what I do.

And just to mix things up a bit, I’m gonna throw in a nice Product Review.  You’re gonna love this one!

  • Lilla’s BF suddenly shut the backdoor.  What’s up with that?
  • E is all worried about the consistency of his spunk.
  • Dustin is gay.  His best gal-pal is straight.  They want to make a baby.
  • NHB is chompin’ at the bit.  He and his partner are discussing opening the corral.

Finally a Product Review — The Vergenza Mk. I

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Kay Jaybee, Part 2 — Podcast #80 — 09/15/08

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with Part 2 of my chat with the sensational author, Kay Jaybee, as we continue to investigate The Erotic Mind.  Stick around, because we will be hearing from several world-class erotic artist in jaybee-kay-fc.jpgthis new series of interviews.

As you recall from last week, Kay’s first book of erotica, The Collector, was published just last month (Austin & Macauley Publishers). This comes on the heels of seven previous anthologies featuring her work, as well as three upcoming volumes to be published later this year and in early 2009.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this exciting interview, look for Podcast #79 in the Podcast Archive, in the sidebar to the right.

Kay and I discuss:

  • Writing for diverse audiences.
  • The importance of attending to detail.
  • How everyday words are transformed in an erotic setting.
  • Building anticipation as opposed to simply bumping parts.
  • Socially conscious erotica; is there such a thing?
  • How a suburban wife and mother becomes Kay Jaybee.
  • The dominance and submission theme in her writing.
  • What the future holds for Kay.
  • Tips for the novice writer of erotica.

Kay also serves up another juicy morsel of her own erotica.

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The Erotic Mind of Kay Jaybee — Podcast #79 — 09/08/08

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Hey sex fans,

I have a remarkable show in store for you.  Today, we inaugurate a brand new series of interviews called The Erotic Mind.  Because of all the amazing feedback I got after my interview with Samantha and Jordan over at Oysters & Chocolate, I realized jaybee-kay-fc.jpgthat my audience has a powerful hunger for all things erotic.

So I thought to myself; OK, how can I help satisfy that craving?  That’s when I came up with the clever idea to interview noted erotic artists.  In doing so, I figured we’d uncover something of the creative process involved in the specialized art form.

This series will include all kinds of artists working in several different media.

To kick off our new series, I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to a world-class artist who creates her erotica using the medium of words — Kay Jaybee.

Kay’s first book of erotica, The Collector, was published last month (Austin & Macauley Publishers). This comes on the heels of seven previous publications featuring her work, as well as three upcoming volumes to be published later this year and in early 2009.  Stick around folks for this enormously entertaining, yet oh so informative, chat with one of the brightest stars in the erotic firmament.

Kay and I discuss:

  • Why the nom de plume?
  • Her very successful career and how it began.
  • The creative process and where she does her writing.
  • Packing her work with words that trigger erotic images.
  • Building tension one word at a time.

Kay also serves up a juicy morsel of her own erotica.

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miss even one episode.

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Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #78 — 09/01/08

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Hey sex fans,

I have a delightful show for you today.  We have some scintillating Q&A and a toy review that I know you will definitely enjoy.

  • Lynn discovers some disturbing evidence in her son’s laundry.
  • Tyler is too young to worry, but he still does.
  • Stephani wonders if it’s gonna hurt the first time.
  • Jimmy wants to know about jelqing!

Finally, a Sex Toy Review!

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Jordan LaRousse and Samantha Sade, Part 2 — Podcast #77 — 08/25/08

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Hey sex fans,

I am delighted to bring you Part 2 of my interview with the oh so lovely and ever so talented, Jordan karina-dale-editors2.jpgLaRousse and Samantha Sade.  Together they are literary goddesses who bless us with one of the best erotica sites on the web, Oysters & Chocolate; Erotic.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this titillating interview, check out the Podcast Archive, right there on the sidebar, and look for last week’s podcast #76.

Again this week our guests will treat us to a taste of some of their favorite erotica.  You don’t want to miss this, people!

Jordan, Samantha and I talk about:

  • What accounts for the huge success of their site.
  • How writers and artists can contribute to O&C
  • Who inspires them.
  • Who their sex heroes are.
  • What the future holds for Oysters & Chocolate.
  • What a visitor will find on their site.
  • Their brand new gay erotica section and their search for new contributors.

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