By Mark Travers
“If you’re too busy for date night, you’re too busy.” These are the words of Drs. John and Julie Gottman, renowned researchers, therapists and marriage counselors. While they suggest there are multiple factors that contribute to a
I stopped having sex like a capitalist
— You should try it
“Now, at 29, with years of orgasm-chasing one night stands, toxic relationships and unlearning under my belt, I think I finally get it.”
By Laura Roscioli
I used to have so much energy for all … Continue reading
The Sexiest Year of My Life Involved Zero Sex
By Melissa Febos
A friend confided to me recently that she was burned out on dating. Cruising the apps in midlife felt humiliating, and she repeatedly confronted the same obstacles in her relationships.
I told her I had faced similar
6 Books About Nonmonogamy
— These titles can offer insight, whether you’re polycurious or already exploring.
By Hope Reese
When Mel Cassidy first became curious about nonmonogamy, there weren’t many helpful resources. Most of the books focused on the transition from monogamy to nonmonogamy,
Seven Ways to Love Better
— Reading some 200,000 love stories has taught me a few lessons about love and life. Here are the ones that help me most.
By Daniel Jones
Two decades ago, on Oct. 31, 2004, a short note appeared on the … Continue reading
Stories That Changed Lives
— For 20 years, Modern Love has recorded people’s lives. The column has also had real-life reverberations on readers.
By Miya Lee
“So what have you learned about love?” people often ask when they find out I’m an editor of … Continue reading
This Is How Kink Can Improve Your Relationship And Sex Life
— Kink is way more nuanced than we think.
Traditionally, most of us have considered kink to be something outside the conventional ideas of sex, however, a study by the University of Brighton has suggested that as … Continue reading
What People Get Wrong About Sexless Relationships
— From A Sex Therapist
There are many reasons sex gets so much attention when it comes to discussing a healthy relationship: It’s a uniquely connective experience where couples get to completely shed their walls, get playful … Continue reading
Early Summer 2014 Q&A Show— Podcast #423 — 06/30/14
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Hey sex fans,
My inbox is overflowing, so it’s time to turn our attention to the sexually worrisome in our audience. I have another swell 
Q&A show in store for you today. Each … Continue reading
Early Spring 2014 Q&A Show — Podcast #413 — 03/31/14
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Hey sex fans,
After a spate of marvelous interview shows, it’s time to turn our attention to the sexually worrisome in our audience. I have a swell Q&A show in store for you