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January 19, 2011June 20, 2026

SEX WISDOM With Christopher Ryan — Podcast #257 — 01/19/11

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Hey, hey sex fans! Welcome back.

I’m all a flutter, sex fans. I feel like the most popular boy in school just asked me to the prom. So ok, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration. It’s more like the most popular boy in school just told me he wants to bugger me senseless. No, wait a minute; this isn’t coming out precisely as I hoped. Let’s just say that I’m thrilled to overflowing to have today’s guest join me for this SEX WISDOM podcast.

As you know, this series is all about talking with people who are changing the way we look at our sexual selves. And no one in this series so far has exceeded the impact of today’s guest on that discourse. I have the honor of welcoming psychologist, Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex At Dawn; The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality.

I confess; this book simply blew me away. And that’s pretty hard to do considering I’m such a jaded old queen. But honestly, I can’t remember being so impacted by anything I’ve read on the topic of human sexuality in like…evah! Sex At Dawn is nothing short of revolutionary. Despite this being a scholarly work, Christopher and his wife, Cacilda Jethá, have gone out of their way to make their presentation completely accessible even to a layman. There is nothing pretentious about it; the book is full of humor and fascinating antidotes. But I can assure you that it will reshape how you look at your own sexuality.

Christopher and I discuss:

The book tour and the media’s response;
The absence of a prescriptive element in the book;
Humans, extremely libidinous apes;
Our failure to question the default human sexual premise — long-term and sexually exclusive;
Ingrained behavior not the same as human nature;
Agriculture not the advance it’s cracked up to be;
Prehistory is 95% of the human experience;
The remnant hunter and gatherer societies;
Classical evolutionary theory is contaminated with Victorian assumptions;
The role of sex in hunter and gatherer societies;
Historical reports of first contact with indigenous peoples.

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DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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January 12, 2011June 9, 2026

More SEX WISDOM from Ruth Neustifter — Podcast #255 – 01/12/11

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Hey sex fans, welcome back!

My good friend and esteemed colleague, Dr. Ruthie is here again today for more of her signature SEX WISDOM. Gosh, I’m so glad she’s able to join us again, because I had so much fun with her last Wednesday. We were chattin’ up a storm, like it was old home week, when I realized our time together had run out. So I had to beg her to please come back for another round this week. It’s just no fair not gettin my fill of this extraordinary sex educator.

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of this delightful conversation, which appeared here last week at this time did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #253 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Dr. Ruthie and I discuss:

Sex and disability;
Stress reduction techniques for better sex;
Sex toys and sexual wellbeing;
Her association with Funwares;
Her YouTube channel;
Teenage sexuality;
Searching for sex-positive and kink-positive healing and helping professionals;
Her surprising inspirations and sexual heroes;
Advice for the aspiring sex educator.

Click on the book art below to buy The Nice Girl’s Guide to Talking Dirty.

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January 5, 2011June 8, 2026

SEX WISDOM with Ruth Neustifter — Podcast #253 – 01/05/1

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Hey sex fans,

I have an outlandishly wonderful interview program for you today to launch the 2011 edition of this, the SEX WISDOM podcast series. You’ve come to expect prominent movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality as my guests in this series. And that’s because over the last year we’ve had an opportunity to meet outstanding researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers; each one making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

So let’s start off this new year with at bang, shall we? I have the honor of welcoming a woman of distinction in the world of sex education. She is a Couples and Family therapist, a sought after lecturer and workshop leader, an author, and acclaimed educator and if that weren’t enough, she’s the star of her own line of sex positive videos. I am delighted to have with me the dynamo that is Dr. Ruthie.

And get this; to celebrate her appearance on my show, Dr. Ruthie is offering a FREE 1-hour consultation to a lucky listener. The terms for entering this giveaway are included in today’s show, so listen up. But here’s a tip; it involves tweeting about this podcast.

Dr. Ruthie and I discuss:

Sexual communication and Recovery from Intimate partner abuse;
Teaching family therapists in training;
AASECT membership;
Her professional journey and taking professional risks;
A free 1-hour consultation giveaway;
The role of the sex educator;
The Nice Girl’s Guide to Talking Dirty;
Her numerous lectures and workshops.

Click on the book art below to buy The Nice Girl’s Guide to Talking Dirty.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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December 8, 2010June 8, 2026

More SEX WISDOM With Brad Warner — Podcast #251 — 12/08/10

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Hey sex fans,

Brad Warner, Zen monk, author of Sex, Sin, and Zen: A Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy to Polyamory and Everything in Between, punk rocker and filmmaker returns this week for Part 2 of our conversation. It’s a pleasure to have him back for another dose of his unique brand of SEX WISDOM.

I suppose you’ve already listened to Part 1 of this exceptional conversation. It appeared here last week at this time, don’t cha know. Good, cuz we don’t want you to miss out. But, if by chance, you missed last week’s show, don’t worry. It and all my podcasts are in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #249 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Brad and I discuss:

Western spiritual traditions are shame-based;
The concept of sin;
Innately knowing right and wrong;
Zen, an individualistic path to enlightenment;
Sticking his finger in the eye of scrupulous religiosity;
Detachment, non-attachment and unity;
The Zen approach to sex;
Zen and porn;
Zen and sex toys;
Zen and polyamory.

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BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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December 1, 2010June 8, 2026

SEX WISDOM With Brad Warner — Podcast #249 — 12/01/10

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Hey sex fans,

Damn, I got some might fine stuff to share with you today. This being the SEX WISDOM series, you’ve come to expect prominent movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality as my guest. And that’s because over the last year, we’ve chatted with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers; each one making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

Ya’ll probably know of my special interest in sexuality and spirituality, right? I mean for me there’s no more potent place in the human psyche than where eroticism and religion come together. So when I had the opportunity to visit with Brad Warner, Zen monk, prolific author, punk rocker and filmmaker, I jumped on it.

Brad is my kind of monk. He’s got his finger on the pulse of the popular culture; he can raise hell with the best of them; and still remain as centered as a Zen master. No small task that, my friends. We will be talking about loads of interesting stuff, including his latest book, Sex, Sin, and Zen: A Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy to Polyamory and Everything in Between. This is not to be missed, people!

Brad and I discuss:

Discerning between how things really are and how we want them to be;
The difficulty of combining sex and spirit for us in the west;
Celibacy and abstinence;
Is there such a thing as a timeless code of ethics;
The Buddhist precept — Do not misuse sexuality;
His personal spiritual and sexual journey;
Zazen;
Sexual orientations;
Christians and yoga.

(Click on the book art below to buy Brad‘s book)

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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October 27, 2010June 8, 2026

SEX WISDOM with Bruno Bond — Podcast #241 – 10/27/10

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Hey sex fans,

And now for the exciting conclusion of my conversation with that squared jaw hunk, one of the hardest working men in porn today, Bruno Bond. This is Part 2 of his appearance on this show. He’s here as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation and the SEX WISDOM series. And he has even more juicy inside information on the gay porn scene to share.

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation, that appeared here last week at this time, did you? Well don’t worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. Look for the search function in the header, type in Podcast #240 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Bruno and I discuss:

Filming sexual tableaus and free form, live action films;
Erections on demand;
His four factors of being a successful porn star;
Becoming desensitized to all the sex;
Drug use in the industry;
Having the talent reserve their sexual energy;
Promoting safer sex;
Editing porn films;
Being a natural in front of the camera;
How he got his nom de porn;
His thoughts about gay-for-pay performers.

More of Bruno and his friends at work and play.

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October 20, 2010June 8, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Bruno Bond — Podcast #240 – 10/20/10

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Hey sex fans,

I have another ridiculously wonderful program for you today. And it’s one of them twofer shows, don’t cha know. My guest, our conversation and the themes discussed in this podcast easily falls into both the Sex EDGE-U-cation and the SEX WISDOM series; so yay for that. I mean, who doesn’t like to get two bangs for his buck?

I have the honor of welcoming a man of distinction in the world of gay porn. He is a top-tier performer, a director, a producer, a videographer, an art director as well as being an exceptionally nice person. I have with me, the oh so talented, Bruno Bond.

Bruno is one of the hardest working men in porn today. Besides being a mainstay at Raging Stallion Studios, he and his husband, Steve Cruz, have their own production company, Hard Friction. Stay tuned, sex fans, because we about to find out how this mere mortal is able to do the superhuman.

Bruno and I discuss:

His persona Bruno Bond; porn star;
Art direction for Raging Stallion Studio;
Directing and videography;
How he got is start in porn and his connection with Steve Cruz;
Porn sex is performance sex that takes the skill of an athlete;
Hard Friction Productions;
Finding the talent and the proverbial “casting couch”.

Bruno invites you to visit him on his personal website HERE! And at his XXX membership site HERE!

Take a peek at Bruno and his friends at work and play.

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October 13, 2010June 5, 2026

More SEX WISDOM With Madison Young — Podcast #238 — 10/13/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with the amazing and totally radical Madison Young and she’s here to dish out about all the SEX WISDOM we could possibly handle. And I mean that literally, because Madison is like a freakin’ force of nature, don’t cha know. But you probably know that already, huh? And when I say that we’re back I mean this is Part 2 of her appearance on this show; and I’m so honored to have more time with her today.

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation that appeared here last week at this time, did you? Well don’t worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. Look for the site’s search function in the header, type in Podcast #236 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Madison and I discuss:

Producing and performing in educational videos;
Knowing the workplace ethics of the porn you consume;
The new wave of sex positive porn;
The Femina Potens Gallery;
Gender and sexual fluidity;
Visual Art Exhipit ‘BustED II‘;
Her globetrotting life;
Top/bottom not synonymous with Dom/sub;
Her sexual heroes.

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October 6, 2010June 5, 2026

SEX WISDOM With Madison Young — Podcast #236 — 10/06/10

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Hey sex fans,

Damn, my life is pretty freakin amazing! Somehow fate gifted me with this gig of chatting with some of the most interesting people in the world. I mean it; this SEX WISDOM series is attracting some of the most prominent movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality. We are meeting researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers; each one is making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

And today’s guest is no exception. She totally blows me away. Performer, director, author, artist and gallerist, the stunning Madison Young is here with us. I know; I can hardly believe it myself. She is phenomenal. To be in the presence of someone so young, so articulate and so wide open is truly refreshing. I wonder if she has any sense of how astonishing she really is. She claims to be the girl next door. And that would be true if we all lived next door to enlightenment. Hold on to your hats, my friends, you’re in for quite a ride.

Madison and I discuss:

Monk of TwistedMonk.com;
Her XXX membership website;
Starring in porn, directing porn and being a performance artist;
Working with all the big porn companies;
The travail of “fast food” porn;
The challenge of directing herself in her movies;
Rough queer sex;
Where art and sex intertwine;
Where she grew up;
Being a kinky feminist.

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September 29, 2010June 2, 2026

More Sex Wisdom with Joan Price – Podcast #234 – 09/29/10

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Hey sex fans,

Joan Price, ageless sexuality advocate and all round wonderful person, is back with us today for Part 2 of her appearance on this show. She delights us, enriches us and makes us laugh while dispensing her signature SEX WISDOM. I am so glad to have so much of Joan, not just because she is such a joy, but because she is willing to break open a conversation that too many of us tend to avoid — the conversation about sex and aging.

If you are just joining us and somehow missed Part 1 of our conversation that appeared here at this time last week; don’t worry. You can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. Look for the search function in the header, type in Podcast #232 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Joan and I discuss: