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June 24, 2009May 26, 2026

Monk, Part 2 – Podcast #133 – 06/24/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more fun with Dick and Jane Monk of TwistedMonk.com. And we’re not just having fun either, no siree! (Although you’d never know it from all the giggling going on.) No buckaroos, this is actually some serious Sex EDGE-U-cation.

meatloaf You see, my conversation with Monk is part of our look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. As you know I’m chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world in the hopes of gaining some perspective on edgy sex. And that’s why this exceptional bondage performance artist is here again this week.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazingly insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #131, use my site’s search function. Just type in Podcast #131 and don’t forget the # sign.

Monk and I discuss:

The edgier side of Monk.
The versatility of human sexual response.
The cultural conflicts of kink.
His professional Dom persona.
His sexual heroes.
His polyamorous private life.

Monk invites you to enter his world and visit him at his website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

Today’s podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

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June 17, 2009May 26, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Monk – Podcast #131 – 06/17/09

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Hey sex fans,

Buckle your seatbelts, my friends, because Monk is in the house. That’s Monk of TwistedMonk.com, don’t cha know. He is located here in Seattle, but his reputation, well that’s international. You’ve seen him all over the freakin’ internet — on his websites, on youtube and twitter; you’ve seen him at the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival; and today you see…well hear him right here on Dr Dick’s Sex Advice. Monk is the consummate bondage performance artist, who is nearly as thrilling to listen to, as he is to watch.

APR07COTM This incredibly sexy and oh so entertaining bondage artist adds his voice to this Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know, in these podcasts, we’re looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Oh, and here’s something you should know. Monk is gonna try and convince us that Twisted Monk does not describe him, but rather is simply the name of his company. Well I beg to differ, sex fans. I mean, please! As you will soon hear, this boy is as twisted as his company’s name implies.

Monk and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest’s history as a hotbed of perversion.
Twisted Monk, the oldest and largest bondage rope factory in the world.
His mentor, Max of BondageLessons.com.
How he came to be know and Monk.
Monk the performance artist and The Bindings Project.
The high of being the bondage top.

Monk invites you to enter his world HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 13, 2009May 25, 2026

Lady Lydia, Part 2 – Podcast #122 – 05/13/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back at Seattle’s premiere dungeon with the exciting and dangerous Lady Lydia, the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator.

This is a Sex EDGE-U-cation podcasts. In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this interesting and oh so edgy conversation, check out Podcast #120, simply use my site’s search function. Type in Podcast #120 and don’t forget the # sign.

Lady Lydia and I discuss:

Endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
Sub-space and Top-space.
Being “old school”.
Aftercare.
The difference between genital sex and power play.
Her sexual heroes.
Searching for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

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May 6, 2009May 25, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady Lydia – Podcast #120 – 05/06/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we take an audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming another Seattle-based personality; the nationally renowned and respected dominatrix and educator, Lady Lydia. We visit with her in her dungeon, don’t cha know.

Those of you who have been paying attention will know that Lady sd1 Lydia is the very first female voice in this series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. So yeah for that, huh?

In this series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

And Lady Lydia fits that description to a tee! She was even part of the recently concluded Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, so folks you know she hot!

Lydia and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is her 10-year career as a professional BDSM top here in the Emerald City. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady Lydia and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
How BDSM and kink permeates her professional and personal life.
BDSM — safe and consensual.
Her role as the star of her own line of DVDs.
Her activities, including her double sessions and private lessons.
Therapeutic BDSM.
Some of the scenes she gets into.

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April 15, 2009May 24, 2026

Max, Part 2 — Podcast #114 — 04/15/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, Max, the Seattle-based bondage artist, educator and Dom. This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. As you know, this series is all about the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Max and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is his polyamorous life with Mistress Matisse and the oh so charming Lorelei.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of our conversation, look for last week’s podcast, #113 on the PODCAST PAGE at the top of this page. Or simply use the site’s search function. Type in podcast #113; don’t forget to include the # sign.

Just a quick aside…as most of you know I was one of the many presenters at the Seattle Fetish & Fantasy Festival this past weekend. When I wasn’t teaching I had an opportunity to sit in on a couple of the other fine workshops offered by some of the Northwest’s most illustrious kink educators. And I’m here to tell you, as delightful and informative and Max is in this podcast conversation, this medium does not compare to Max in front of a live audience with a length of rope in one hand and beautiful Lorelei in the other. They are phenomenal together, and not to be missed.

Max and I discuss:

The role of endorphins and adrenaline in power play.
BDSM as both recreation and catharsis.
Polyamory, a working definition.
Poly-fidelity and cohabitation.
Developing a vocabulary for discussing poly structures.
Managing a poly relationship — jealousy and compersion.

Be sure to visit Max at his website HERE!

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April 8, 2009May 24, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Max – Podcast #113 – 04/08/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the Seattle-based, yet internationally known and respected, bondage artist, educator and Dom, who goes by the name Max. We will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics; not least among them is his polyamorous life with Seattle’s finest professional Dominatrix, Mistress Matisse. This is exciting and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss this.

max-pic Max is my latest guest in this new series of podcast interviews I’m doing called Sex EDGE-U-cation . As you know, we’re taking a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We are touching on topics both familiar and exotic. We are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Max and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
How BDSM, polyamory and kink infuse his life.
His role as an educator and activist.
His workshops at The Center For Sex Positive Culture and his private lessons.
Safety and compatibility issues between top and bottom.
Building intimacy through BDSM.
Differentiating between BDSM, kink and genital sex.

Be sure to visit Max at his website HERE!

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March 25, 2009May 24, 2026

KinkedKenny, Part 2 — Podcast #110 — 03/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, that bad boy of kink photography, Kenny Lee, a.k.a. KinkedKenny. Kenny is also an ardent practitioner of the lifestyle he so skillfully captures in his photography.

kenny02 This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. As you know, this series is all about the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.
If you somehow missed Part 1 of conversation, look for last week’s podcast, #108 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE. Or simply use the search function. Type in podcast #108; don’t forget to include the # sign.

Kenny and I discuss:

The intersection between his personal and professional life.
BDSM as both recreation and catharsis.
Melding graphics and photography to create new art.
Digitally capturing real men playing out their fantasies.
His future plans.
His sexual heroes.

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March 4, 2009May 23, 2026

Scott Daddy, Part 2 – Podcast #105 – 03/04/09

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Hey sex fans,

nasty_pig_chaps2-credit_325x490 We’re back with my friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy; the BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom extraordinaire, don’t cha know. This, of course, is Part 2 my of my chat with Scott in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. This series of interviews takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. It touches on topics both familiar and exotic. And we’ll be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amusing yet provocative discussion look for last week’s podcast, #103 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE in the sidebar of my site. Or simply use the search function; type in the key words: “podcast #103”. Don’t forget to include the # sign.

Scott and I discuss:

How he began his career as a Dom.
His public lectures, demonstrations and presentations.
Working with both men and women.
Mentoring newbees to the scene.
His sexual heroes.

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BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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February 25, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Scott Daddy – Podcast #103 – 02/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

port_41bw_516x776 Today I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy, to those who know and love him. (So that’s why I call him Sir.) Just kidding!

Scott is a BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom all rolled into that most charming package. And he has the most wonderful sense of humor, as you will soon discover. Scott is my second guest in this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.

Through this series we’ll take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And I will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

This new series will continue to appear on Wednesdays. My regular weekly podcast, which often contains The Erotic Mind interviews, will continue on Mondays.

Scott and I discuss:

The meaning of Power Play.
Kink — behavior outside the social norm. But how decides the norm?
Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
Working definitions for: Negotiation, Safeword, Scene and Aftercare.

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February 16, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #100 — 02/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

I am delighted to welcome back my distinguished guest, Dart, for Part 2 of our chat about Power Exchange, BDSM and role playing . He is the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom.

6a00e54fb949ec88340105365c49d3970c-800wi This is my new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation. It’s all about the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink and alternative lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. We’ll chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazing interview, look for Podcast #99 on Dr Dick’s Podcasts page. Look for the tab at the top of the page.

Dart and I discuss: