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December 9, 2009May 29, 2026

Andrea Zanin, Part 2 – Podcast #174 – 12/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I bring you the very last word in the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series for 2009. We will be back with a slew of other prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions the first Wednesday of the New Year. But in the meantime, we go out with a bang. The brilliant and oh so charming Andrea Zanin is back with us to conclude the chat we began last week.

You didn’t miss Part 1 of this insightful conversation, did you? If ya snooze ya lose! Actually, that’s not completely true, because all of my podcast are archived on my site. Use the search function to your right, type in Podcast #172 and Voilà. Just remember to include the #sign when you do your search.

Andrea and I discuss:

A working definition of polyamory.
Her poly life.
The sociology behind the monogamous heterosexual, reproductive pair.
Marriage and queer folk.
Changing attitudes toward polyamory in the popular culture.
The connection, if any, between poly and other nontraditional sexual expressions.
Coming out as poly or kinky.
The right to culturally competent healing and helping care.

For more of Andrea check out her website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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December 2, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Andrea Zanin – Podcast #172 – 12/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

Back in early February of this year I launched this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation. I promised back then that this series would take a look at the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink. We’d touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I remember telling that I could guarantee that our investigation will be interesting, stimulating and very informative, because we would be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Well then, here we are ten months later and we’re still going strong. My first guest in this series, Dart, introduced me to today’s guest way back in February. But its only now that I finally have this opportunity to introduce her to you. Join me in welcoming the amazing Andrea Zanin. She is my last guest in this series for 2009, and she’s a humdinger, don’t cha know.

Andrea is also from Toronto, as is Dart, and like him she is internationally known and respected. She’s a writer and educator within the queer, polyamory and BDSM/leather communities. And she bring a unique voice to this ever growing chorus of exceptional guests in this series.

Andrea and I discuss:

Her life as a grad student, community activist, teacher and writer.
Being a sex geek and blogging since 2006.
Her site being a virtual graduate course in human sexuality.
Presenting on college campuses.
Being a leather dyke and being a judge for leather contests.
Power play, BDSM and fetishes.
The currency of power, consent and negotiations.
Being a Dom in power play and a switch in sensation play.

You can visit Andrea on her website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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November 25, 2009May 29, 2026

Tony Buff, Part 2 – Podcast #170 – 11/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

It’s the day before Thanksgiving and I have the holiday treat you’ve all been waiting for. Porn star, activist, educator, rigger and Dom. Tony Buff, Is back with us for more of his unique Sex EDGE-U-cation.

Part 1 of my chat with Tony, which appeared last week at this time, is the most popular interview podcast to date. It broke all download records for a single podcast in a single week, so yea for that. But wait, did you somehow miss last week’s installment? We’ll that’s just not right! But don’t worry; you can make it up. All my podcasts are archived right here. All ya have to do is use the site’s search function to your right; type in Podcast #168 and presto! Don’t forget the #sign when you do your search

Tony and I discuss:

His fan base that includes loads of kinky women.
His polyamorous relations that includes Derek da Silva and Chris Yosef.
Open, honest communication the key to relationship success.
Power Play — how he started and his life now.
Being a power switch.
Exhilaration of creating scenes for his sub.
Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
The importance of working with sex positive & kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

Be sure to visit Tony on his kick-ass site HERE!

More of Tony & friends at work and play.

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November 18, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tony Buff – Podcast #168 – 11/18/09

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Hey sex fans,

Did you miss me last week? I know, I know; it was beyond my control. Sorry to disappoint. But, to make it up to you, I have the real deal for you today. That’s right, we’re gonna get some mighty impressive Sex EDGE-U-cation from one of the luminaries of gay porn. I’m talkin big, big star here people, and that’s both literally and figuratively, if ya catch my drift.

I have the pleasure of welcoming a tireless activist, compelling educator, masterful rigger and superb Dom. He also directs as well as performs in his signature line of critically acclaimed fetish movies. He is the one and only Tony Buff.

If you know anything about BDSM, rope bondage or power play, you will probably know his name. And if you are a connoisseur of cutting edge smut, well then, I know you are a huge fan of this amazing man, just like me.

Tony brings the same intensity and focus of his on screen performances to this interview. And he adds his unique voice to the ever-growing chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that is this podcast series.

Tony and I discuss:

Body double, or just a cock double?
The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
His on screen persona being the same as his off screen persona.
How he got his start in porn.
The workshops he and Derek da Silva present together.
His mentors — Max and Monk.
His collaboration with Titan Media, The Rough Line.
Challenges, opportunities and the future of porn.
The bareback phenomenon.
A More Nuanced Position.

Be sure to visit Tony on his kick-ass site HERE!

Tony & friends at work and play.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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September 23, 2009May 28, 2026

Claire Adams, Part 2 — Podcast #155 — 09/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

The amazing Claire Adams returns with more of her special brand of Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is Part 2 of our chat and we’ll be discussing a lot of things including her bondage porn career.

bl51a6va As you know, in this podcast series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And no one fits this bill better than Claire.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #153. Simply use my site’s search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #153, but don’t forget the # sign.

Claire and I discuss:

Fem-Dom — male-submission.
The intricacies of Bondage Porn.
Bondage as a means to an end and as an end in itself.
Her role preferences for Dom or sub.
The corresponding highs and lows of each role.
Endorphins and adrenaline.
Top-drop and bottom-drop.
Archetypes and predispositions.
The need for chemistry with potential play partners.
Her sexual heroes.

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September 16, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Claire Adams — Podcast #153 — 09/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

As I mentioned at the beginning of Monday’s podcast, over the next two weeks, and on both Mondays and Wednesdays, I will be featuring two absolutely amazing women in my podcasts. Both of these very talented women are taking a lead role in helping change our society’s perception of female sexuality and the gift of physical beauty. And each is doing it from what might, at first glance, appear to be the polar opposite of the other. But I believe appearances can be deceiving.

MsAdamsBio On Monday I introduced you to the ultimate photographer of the female nude, Leanne Bell, as part of The Erotic Mind series. Today, as part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation series, I have the pleasure of welcoming the internationally renowned teacher, BDSM advocate and on camera performer, Pro-Dom, pro-sub, bondage master, and video director, Claire Adams. She’s here to share something of her amazing life with us.

Both of my guests are extraordinarily passionate women who are completely immersed in their work. And their fervor is infused by a philosophy of empowerment and the beauty of women as full-fledged sexual beings. These podcasts are not to be missed!

Claire and I discuss:

Her real life as a rope bottom, submissive and slave.
ClaireBondage.com — a unique mix of porn and BDSM.
Bondage games and predicament bondage.
Being a collared sub,
RACK — Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
Claire the contortionist.
How se began her life in kink.
Damon & Claire, purveyors of high quality rope kits.
Her life as a Pro-Dom and her ability to switch between Dom and sub roles.

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August 26, 2009May 28, 2026

More Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #148 – 08/26/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with that delicious Georgia peach, Lady HotchKiss, for more of her unique Sex EDGE-U-cation. In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. But you know that already, huh?

Attitude Did you somehow miss last week’s show? That’s a pity! Because Lady HotchKiss spilled the beans about her life with her two slaves. Does that peak your interest? I thought it would. You’ll find last week’s podcast by using my site’s search function in the sidebar. Type in Podcast #146, but be sure to include the #sign.

I’m so lovin this conversation, because Lady HotchKiss is bendin’ my mind big time. This week we shift gears a bit; Lady HotchKiss takes us on a little tour of her Pro-Dom life. We get way more eye-opening chat and loads of laughs too. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Pro-Dom activities —
——Interrogation to medical play; tickling to slave training.
BDSM etiquette and protocols.
Sexuality/Genitality/Power play.
Tips for the novice kinkster.
What newbies need to know.
Care to “munch”?
The need for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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August 19, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #146 – 08/19/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we travel to Atlanta, GA for some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation. We chat with an amazing woman. She’s pretty as all get out, but don’t let her sweet looks fool you. She is the consummate Fem Domme, I mean right down to the marrow in her bones. But if that’s not enough to turn your crank, she has a multitude of facets to her delightful personality, not least among them being a domestic goddess. And she actually made Dr Dick blush. Not everyone can do that!

Crouching Glasses I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the renowned and nationally respected dominatrix, Lady HotchKiss.

In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Lady HotchKiss and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics including her idyllic family life with her two slaves. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Her 24/7 life as a Dom.
The psychological dimensions of having two slaves.
The prevalence of the Fem/Dom archetype in fashion and the popular culture.
Being a domestic goddess.
M/s protocols.
The symbiotic relationship between Master and slave.
Bottom/sub/slave; not just a question of semantics.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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August 12, 2009May 28, 2026

Chris Yosef, Part 2 – Podcast #144 – 08/12/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with Part 2 of my conversation with Chris Yosef. And this is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. It’s where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Part 1 of this chat with Chris was so freakin popular it broke all download records for any podcast during its first week after its posting. Of course I made my mother and her bridge club listen to it over and over to rack up the numbers. Just kidding!

If you some how missed Part 1 of this interesting discussion look for Podcast #142. Use my site’s search function to your right — type in Podcast #142, and presto! But don’t forget to include the # sign.

Chris and I discuss:

The Dom/sub archetype.
Is there such a thing as Dom/sub pheromones?
His far-flung poly-family and the pressures of being so high profile.
Power play with both women and men.
Chris & Tony in the movies.
The Rough Line; real players with an accent on safe sex.

And for an up close and personal view of my guest and his polyamorous family, visit Chris on his blog HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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August 5, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Chris Yosef – Podcast #142 – 08/05/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation, people! As you know, this podcast series takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. And today’s guest adds his unique voice to the chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that we have heard from so far.

I have the honor of welcoming an extraordinary fellow, Chris Yosef. He and I will be delving into some of the same things I’ve discussed with others in this series — BDSM, polyamory, porn, spirituality and love — but he speaks from his perspective of a sub in a Dom/sub relationship. And that’s a first for this series.