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March 23, 2009May 24, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Benoît Prévot — Podcast #109 — 03/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today, I have yet another installment in my series of interviews called The Erotic Mind. You’ll notice right away that there’s a distinctly international flair to this week’s podcast. Why? Because I have the good fortune of introducing you to an up and coming erotic artist, who joins us from his home in Paris, France, don’t cha know. His name is Benoît Prévot.

moi This all started some weeks ago when I was aimlessly poking around some of my favorite websites. One site in particular, the beautiful and thoughtful Fairview (A site, I might add, that is a work of art all on its own.) is the loving creation of a fellow blogger, Sue. It was on her handsome site that I first encountered this Parisian wonder. When I happen upon Ben’s comic illustrations I knew for certain that I had to chat with him for this series.

If you are like me, and love smart, sexy erotic art with just a dash of humor, be sure to check out Benoît’s lusty drawings and illustrations as well as his insightful and informative blog on his site: site: benoitprevot.com.

I encourage you to ask him how you can purchase his original artwork. Because I am of the mind that no serious collector of erotic art should be without a Prévot or two; that is if ya ask me.

Ben and I discuss:

• How he got his start as an artist; as an erotic artist.
• Where he finds his models.
• The difference between erotic and pornographic.
• How he imbues his artistic creations with life.
• Eroticizing the un-erotic.
• Advice for the novice erotic artist

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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March 18, 2009May 24, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with KinkedKenny – Podcast #108 – 03/18/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a true original in the world of erotic photography, Kenny Lee, a.k.a. KinkedKenny. He is also an ardent practitioner of the lifestyle he so skillfully captures in his art.

Kenny is my third guest in this new series of podcast interviews I’m doing called Sex EDGE-U-cation. We’re taking a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. But Kenny is also my first 2-fer guest, because he comfortably straddles both The Erotic Mind podcast series, that I do on Mondays, and this series I’m doing on Wednesdays. So we will be picking his brain on both topics.

Kenny is first and foremost a photographer, but he is also a storyteller. He shoots fashion as well as kink, but whatever he shoots you can be sure that it will push the envelope. His photography can be both exquisitely beautiful and stunningly disturbing. And often his images are both of these things at the same time.

Besides being a brilliant photographer, he is in his very own element when exploring the world of kink. Like his photos, Kenny is “Raw, Dark, Twisted and Real”.

Kenny and I discuss:

The transition from fashion photographer to kink photographer — InkedKenny to KinkedKenny.
Working with real people in the lifestyle and capturing the chemistry between the players.
His agenda: to shake his audience out of their complacently by engaging us in his work.

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March 16, 2009May 24, 2026

Emerald Returns — Podcast #107 — 03/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with my guest, that talented young erotic author, Emerald. This is Part 2 our chat in this podcast series called The Erotic Mind. As you know, we’ve been chatting with erotic artists of every stripe in the hope of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

emerald_2 If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful and charming discussion look for last week’s podcast, #106 on my PODCAST PAGE. Use the search function in the sidebar and just type in podcast #106. Don’t forget to include the # sign.

Emerald and I discuss:

The connection between the erotic and the spiritual.
Writing for a female and/or male audience.
The difference between erotica and pornography.
The empowering and enriching nature of erotica.
Erotica as aphrodisiac.
Her inspirations and sexual heroes.

Emerald serves up another selection of her own erotica.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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March 9, 2009May 23, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Emerald — Podcast #106 — 03/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an exceptionally delicious show in store for you today. I have the pleasure of introducing you to one of the rising stars in the erotica firmament. emerald_1 Her name is Emerald. (Don’t you just love how some folks get away with using only one name? I gotta tell you that I tried that once myself. I used refer to myself simply as — Dick. Well, you can see right away how many problems there was with that moniker, huh?)

Anyway, the ever-charming and oh so smutty Emerald joins us as my latest guest in this series of interviews I’m doing with noted erotic artists called The Erotic Mind. As you know, we’ve been chatting with these ingenious people in hopes of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

And as a special treat, Emerald will share with us a very delectable selection from the fruit of her Erotic Mind. This will be of particular interest to the edgier folks in our audience.

To give you a little foretaste of what you are in for today, here’s Emerald writing about herself on her site: “Emerald is an erotic fiction author and general advocate for human sexuality as informed by her deep appreciation of the beauty, value, and intrinsic nature of sexuality and its holistic relation to life.”

Emerald and I discuss:

• Her philosophy about human sexuality
• Her nom de plume, and why.
• Her writing career and how it began.
• Creating petite works of literary art, one word at a time.
• Being a sex worker and its impact on her writing.

Emerald serves up a juicy morsel of her own erotica.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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March 4, 2009May 23, 2026

Scott Daddy, Part 2 – Podcast #105 – 03/04/09

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Hey sex fans,

nasty_pig_chaps2-credit_325x490 We’re back with my friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy; the BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom extraordinaire, don’t cha know. This, of course, is Part 2 my of my chat with Scott in this podcast series called Sex EDGE-U-cation. This series of interviews takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. It touches on topics both familiar and exotic. And we’ll be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amusing yet provocative discussion look for last week’s podcast, #103 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE in the sidebar of my site. Or simply use the search function; type in the key words: “podcast #103”. Don’t forget to include the # sign.

Scott and I discuss:

How he began his career as a Dom.
His public lectures, demonstrations and presentations.
Working with both men and women.
Mentoring newbees to the scene.
His sexual heroes.

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BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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March 2, 2009May 23, 2026

James Lear Returns — Podcast #104 — 03/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with that exceptional erotic author and novelist, the one and only James Lear. This is Part 2 my of my chat with James in this podcast series called The Erotic Mind. As you know, we’ve been chatting with erotic artists of every stripe in the hope of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this delightful yet provocative discussion look for last week’s podcast, #102 on Dr Dick’s PODCAST PAGE at the top of the page. Or use the search function; just type in podcast #102. Don’t forget to include the # sign.

James will share with us a juicy passage from his best-selling novel, The Palace of Varieties. I am currently deep into reading this brilliantly smutty work myself. And I have James and his generous publisher, Cleis Press, to thank for that, don’t cha know.

James and I discuss:

What the difference might be between erotica and porn.
What makes good lit, erotic or otherwise.
Writing an erotic novel.
Celebrating sexuality in his writing.
Humor in erotica; like yeast in bread.
Avoiding the formulaic.
His sexual heroes.

And like I said, James serves up a juicy bit of his own erotica.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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February 25, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Scott Daddy – Podcast #103 – 02/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

port_41bw_516x776 Today I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a friend and colleague, Scott Mallinger, a.k.a. Scott Daddy, to those who know and love him. (So that’s why I call him Sir.) Just kidding!

Scott is a BDSM journalist, lecturer, leather titleholder and Dom all rolled into that most charming package. And he has the most wonderful sense of humor, as you will soon discover. Scott is my second guest in this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.

Through this series we’ll take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And I will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

This new series will continue to appear on Wednesdays. My regular weekly podcast, which often contains The Erotic Mind interviews, will continue on Mondays.

Scott and I discuss:

The meaning of Power Play.
Kink — behavior outside the social norm. But how decides the norm?
Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
Working definitions for: Negotiation, Safeword, Scene and Aftercare.

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February 23, 2009May 23, 2026

The Erotic Mind of James Lear — Podcast #102 — 02/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an exceptional show in store for you. Today, we return to my series of interviews with noted erotic artists called The Erotic Mind, As you know, we’ve been chatting with these ingenious people in hopes of uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

Sex fans, I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the reigning king of gay erotic fiction. No wait, I need to correct that. My guest is actually the reigning king of all erotica, the amazing James Lear.

James is a prolific author and novelist. His work is recognized all over the world as topnotch. In fact, he was named “Best Writer” at the 2008 Erotic Awards. No mean feat that, I can tell ya.

And as a special treat, James will share with us a juicy morsel of the delectable fruit of his Erotic Mind. You don’t want to miss this, people!

James and I discuss:

His nom de plume?
His very successful career and how it began.
His diverse audience of both women and men, gay and straight.
Who is writing gay erotic fiction these days.
The Slash Fiction phenomenon.
Breaking down traditional writing niches.
Avoiding clichés when creating sex scenes.

And like I said, James serves up a juicy bit of his own erotica.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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February 16, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #100 — 02/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

I am delighted to welcome back my distinguished guest, Dart, for Part 2 of our chat about Power Exchange, BDSM and role playing . He is the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom.

6a00e54fb949ec88340105365c49d3970c-800wi This is my new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation. It’s all about the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink and alternative lifestyles. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. We’ll chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazing interview, look for Podcast #99 on Dr Dick’s Podcasts page. Look for the tab at the top of the page.

Dart and I discuss:

Working definitions for Scene, Negotiation, Safe Word.
Learning to embrace one’s kinks and fetishes.
How he got his start as a Dom.
Puppy play and other role-play.
What he’s into as a Dom.
Tips for the novice on approaching the BDSM scene.
His sexual heroes.

Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

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February 11, 2009May 23, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Dart – Podcast #99 – 02/11/09

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Hey sex fans,

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT, SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT! Today’s podcast marks my 2nd anniversary of bringing you these audio editions of my sex advice column.

6a00e54fb949ec8834010536ad8b6e970b-800wi To celebrate this milestone I’ve decided to launch a new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation.

In this series we will take a look at the fascinating world of kink and fetish sex. We’ll touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I guarantee that our investigation will be thought-provoking, stimulating and very informative. And I can say that with such confidence because we will be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

This new series, which premieres today, will continue to appear on Wednesdays. However, my regular weekly podcast will continue on Mondays.

I am exceptionally pleased to welcome my first guest in this series; the Toronto based yet internationally known and respected bondage artist, educator, leather titleholder and Dom. My inaugural guest is none other than the man they call Dart. You know you’re good when you only have to use one name.

Dart and I discuss: