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October 28, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Cunning Minx – Podcast #163 – 10/28/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I have the pleasure of welcoming an international celebrity; a woman I’ve admired, albeit from afar, for ages. She is a highly sought-after speaker on the subject of polyamory. That’s probably because, not only is she exceptionally well informed on the topic, she also has a wicked sense of humor. She is the founder polyweekly.com and host of its wildly popular podcast series. One, I might add, that has been running continuously for nearly 5 years. That, my friends, is staying power!

My guest is none other than the charming and vivacious, Cunning Minx. If you know anything about polyamory, you will at least recognize her name. However, it’s much more likely that you are a huge fan of this amazing woman, just like me.

I happily turn the tables on Minx in today’s program. Instead of assuming her traditional role as podcast host, she is my guest. And she adds her unique voice in the ever-growing chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that we call the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series.

Minx and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
The Polyweekly podcasts; going strong since 2005.
Tales from the front of responsible non-monogamy from a pansexual, kink-friendly point of view.
Her private life and relationship with her ex, Graydancer.
Her site as a clearinghouse for all things poly.
How she got the name, Cunning Minx.
Dating within the poly community.
Some younger gay men’s perception of polyamory.
A working definition of polyamory.

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October 14, 2009May 29, 2026

Sophie Hirschfeld, Part 2 – Podcast #160 – 10/14/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation with my special guest, the beautiful, talented and oh so smart, Sophie Hirschfeld. As we learned last week, she is a plus-sized model, stripper, camgirl, phone sex actress and writer. And in this, Part 2, of our conversation, we continue our chat about her career as a sex worker, activist and educator.

You didn’t miss last week’s show did you? Shame on you if you did! But don’t get too down on yourself, because Part 1 of our chat is archived right there on my site. Simply use my site’s search function to your right. Type in Podcast #158 and presto! But hey, don’t forget to use the #sign when you search.

Sophie and I discuss:

Sex work and her intimate relationships
Components of sex work that don’t involve sex.
Sex work, part of the service industry.
Fantasy and role-play.
Sex work, a double-edged sword — empowering yet demanding.
Current economic conditions add to sex worker rolls.
How some women justify their sex work.
Lesbian-for-pay cam chicks.
Her encounters with the pizza boy!
What the general public can learn from sex workers.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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October 7, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Sophie Hirschfeld – Podcast #158 – 10/07/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have something truly extraordinary in store for you. As you know this Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative lifestyles. We touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And I chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Well then, today, we add yet another unique voice to this growing chorus. I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to my special guest, the beautiful, talented and oh so smart, Sophie Hirschfeld. She is a plus-sized model, a stripper, a camgirl, a phone sex actress and a writer. But I think she’s best described as a philosopher of sex. Oh, I should also mention that she is absolutely hilarious too.

We will be talking about her career as a sex worker, as an activist and as an educator. You don’t want to miss a moment of this, sex fans!

Sophie and I discuss:

Where sex and science collide.
Magnus Hirschfeld and Sidonie-Gabrielle Colette.
Being an erotic entertainer.
Which is the oldest profession?
Getting into the sex industry.
Economic considerations of sex work.
Sex work on the front lines of sex education.
Her sex work and her intimate relationships.
The power of dirty words.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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September 23, 2009May 28, 2026

Claire Adams, Part 2 — Podcast #155 — 09/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

The amazing Claire Adams returns with more of her special brand of Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is Part 2 of our chat and we’ll be discussing a lot of things including her bondage porn career.

bl51a6va As you know, in this podcast series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And no one fits this bill better than Claire.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #153. Simply use my site’s search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #153, but don’t forget the # sign.

Claire and I discuss:

Fem-Dom — male-submission.
The intricacies of Bondage Porn.
Bondage as a means to an end and as an end in itself.
Her role preferences for Dom or sub.
The corresponding highs and lows of each role.
Endorphins and adrenaline.
Top-drop and bottom-drop.
Archetypes and predispositions.
The need for chemistry with potential play partners.
Her sexual heroes.

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September 16, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Claire Adams — Podcast #153 — 09/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

As I mentioned at the beginning of Monday’s podcast, over the next two weeks, and on both Mondays and Wednesdays, I will be featuring two absolutely amazing women in my podcasts. Both of these very talented women are taking a lead role in helping change our society’s perception of female sexuality and the gift of physical beauty. And each is doing it from what might, at first glance, appear to be the polar opposite of the other. But I believe appearances can be deceiving.

MsAdamsBio On Monday I introduced you to the ultimate photographer of the female nude, Leanne Bell, as part of The Erotic Mind series. Today, as part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation series, I have the pleasure of welcoming the internationally renowned teacher, BDSM advocate and on camera performer, Pro-Dom, pro-sub, bondage master, and video director, Claire Adams. She’s here to share something of her amazing life with us.

Both of my guests are extraordinarily passionate women who are completely immersed in their work. And their fervor is infused by a philosophy of empowerment and the beauty of women as full-fledged sexual beings. These podcasts are not to be missed!

Claire and I discuss:

Her real life as a rope bottom, submissive and slave.
ClaireBondage.com — a unique mix of porn and BDSM.
Bondage games and predicament bondage.
Being a collared sub,
RACK — Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
Claire the contortionist.
How se began her life in kink.
Damon & Claire, purveyors of high quality rope kits.
Her life as a Pro-Dom and her ability to switch between Dom and sub roles.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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September 9, 2009May 28, 2026

Sylvia O’Stayformore, Part 2 – Podcast #151 – 09/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

naughtySylvia We’re back with the toast of the Emerald City, Sylvia O’Stayformore and more of her charming Sex EDGE-U-cation. There’s nothing like the wisdom of a drag queen to put all this sex, sexuality and gender stuff into perspective, don’t cha know.

Did you somehow miss Part 1 of this enjoyable conversation? Well, all ya have to do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #150 and PRESTO! You’ll find last week’s show. But when you do your search, don’t forget to include the # sign.

Sylvia and I discuss:

Becoming Sylvia and her signature look.
Crossdressing; compulsion or recreation.
The difference between a drag queen and a female impersonator.
If there is a hormonal or genetic component to crossdressing.
The skill involved in being a drag queen.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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September 3, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Sylvia O’Stayformore – Podcast #150 – 09/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

This week we gonna get some pretty delightful Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is, of course, the podcast series that looks at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. My guests have included prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And today I am proud to add another category to that list today — Entertainers.

DSCN7819 Yes siree, buckaroos, my guest is the one and only Sylvia O’Stayformore. She is the toast of the Emerald City, don’t cha know. She is my friend, a brilliant drag performer and a laugh riot on stage and off. She has tickled my fancy on several occasions, if ya know what I mean.

And guess what? I even had the good fortune to co-host a live sex show with Sylvia a couple years ago. As a special treat, I’ve added that video to this posting; scroll down to find it. Be sure to check it out, cuz it has a naked man in it; and happily he ain’t me.

Sylvia and I discuss:

Her humble beginnings.
Crossdressing vs. transvestism.
Crossdressing and drag.
Her own personal journey and her activism.
Women drag queens? Who knew!
Reasons why people crossdress, and the challenges.
The sexual charge of gender specific clothing.
Getting hit on as Sylvia.
Common myths of crossdressing.
Advice for parents of crossdressing kids.

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August 26, 2009May 28, 2026

More Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #148 – 08/26/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with that delicious Georgia peach, Lady HotchKiss, for more of her unique Sex EDGE-U-cation. In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. But you know that already, huh?

Attitude Did you somehow miss last week’s show? That’s a pity! Because Lady HotchKiss spilled the beans about her life with her two slaves. Does that peak your interest? I thought it would. You’ll find last week’s podcast by using my site’s search function in the sidebar. Type in Podcast #146, but be sure to include the #sign.

I’m so lovin this conversation, because Lady HotchKiss is bendin’ my mind big time. This week we shift gears a bit; Lady HotchKiss takes us on a little tour of her Pro-Dom life. We get way more eye-opening chat and loads of laughs too. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Pro-Dom activities —
——Interrogation to medical play; tickling to slave training.
BDSM etiquette and protocols.
Sexuality/Genitality/Power play.
Tips for the novice kinkster.
What newbies need to know.
Care to “munch”?
The need for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

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August 19, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #146 – 08/19/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we travel to Atlanta, GA for some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation. We chat with an amazing woman. She’s pretty as all get out, but don’t let her sweet looks fool you. She is the consummate Fem Domme, I mean right down to the marrow in her bones. But if that’s not enough to turn your crank, she has a multitude of facets to her delightful personality, not least among them being a domestic goddess. And she actually made Dr Dick blush. Not everyone can do that!

Crouching Glasses I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the renowned and nationally respected dominatrix, Lady HotchKiss.

In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Lady HotchKiss and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics including her idyllic family life with her two slaves. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Her 24/7 life as a Dom.
The psychological dimensions of having two slaves.
The prevalence of the Fem/Dom archetype in fashion and the popular culture.
Being a domestic goddess.
M/s protocols.
The symbiotic relationship between Master and slave.
Bottom/sub/slave; not just a question of semantics.

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August 12, 2009May 28, 2026

Chris Yosef, Part 2 – Podcast #144 – 08/12/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with Part 2 of my conversation with Chris Yosef. And this is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. It’s where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Part 1 of this chat with Chris was so freakin popular it broke all download records for any podcast during its first week after its posting. Of course I made my mother and her bridge club listen to it over and over to rack up the numbers. Just kidding!

If you some how missed Part 1 of this interesting discussion look for Podcast #142. Use my site’s search function to your right — type in Podcast #142, and presto! But don’t forget to include the # sign.

Chris and I discuss: