Interview – Page 12 – DR DICK SEX ADVICE

September 9, 2009May 28, 2026

Sylvia O’Stayformore, Part 2 – Podcast #151 – 09/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

naughtySylvia We’re back with the toast of the Emerald City, Sylvia O’Stayformore and more of her charming Sex EDGE-U-cation. There’s nothing like the wisdom of a drag queen to put all this sex, sexuality and gender stuff into perspective, don’t cha know.

Did you somehow miss Part 1 of this enjoyable conversation? Well, all ya have to do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #150 and PRESTO! You’ll find last week’s show. But when you do your search, don’t forget to include the # sign.

Sylvia and I discuss:

Becoming Sylvia and her signature look.
Crossdressing; compulsion or recreation.
The difference between a drag queen and a female impersonator.
If there is a hormonal or genetic component to crossdressing.
The skill involved in being a drag queen.

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September 3, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Sylvia O’Stayformore – Podcast #150 – 09/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

This week we gonna get some pretty delightful Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is, of course, the podcast series that looks at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. My guests have included prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And today I am proud to add another category to that list today — Entertainers.

DSCN7819 Yes siree, buckaroos, my guest is the one and only Sylvia O’Stayformore. She is the toast of the Emerald City, don’t cha know. She is my friend, a brilliant drag performer and a laugh riot on stage and off. She has tickled my fancy on several occasions, if ya know what I mean.

And guess what? I even had the good fortune to co-host a live sex show with Sylvia a couple years ago. As a special treat, I’ve added that video to this posting; scroll down to find it. Be sure to check it out, cuz it has a naked man in it; and happily he ain’t me.

Sylvia and I discuss:

Her humble beginnings.
Crossdressing vs. transvestism.
Crossdressing and drag.
Her own personal journey and her activism.
Women drag queens? Who knew!
Reasons why people crossdress, and the challenges.
The sexual charge of gender specific clothing.
Getting hit on as Sylvia.
Common myths of crossdressing.
Advice for parents of crossdressing kids.

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August 26, 2009May 28, 2026

More Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #148 – 08/26/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with that delicious Georgia peach, Lady HotchKiss, for more of her unique Sex EDGE-U-cation. In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. But you know that already, huh?

Attitude Did you somehow miss last week’s show? That’s a pity! Because Lady HotchKiss spilled the beans about her life with her two slaves. Does that peak your interest? I thought it would. You’ll find last week’s podcast by using my site’s search function in the sidebar. Type in Podcast #146, but be sure to include the #sign.

I’m so lovin this conversation, because Lady HotchKiss is bendin’ my mind big time. This week we shift gears a bit; Lady HotchKiss takes us on a little tour of her Pro-Dom life. We get way more eye-opening chat and loads of laughs too. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Pro-Dom activities —
——Interrogation to medical play; tickling to slave training.
BDSM etiquette and protocols.
Sexuality/Genitality/Power play.
Tips for the novice kinkster.
What newbies need to know.
Care to “munch”?
The need for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

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August 24, 2009May 28, 2026

Sean-Z Returns — Podcast #147 — 08/24/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with the oh so charming visual artist, Sean-Z. This is Part 2 of our enlightening conversation. Did you somehow miss Part 1? Not to worry! Use the search function on the sidebar, type in Podcast #145 and Presto! But don’t forget to include the #sign when you do the search.

Sean shares his thoughts on numerous topics surrounding his erotic creations as part of The Erotic Mind podcast series. As you know, I’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the place in an effort to try to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form. And Sean does not disappoint. Besides being terribly thought provoking, he is also amazingly funny. Brains, talent and a sense of humor; oh baby, oh baby, you make me so hot!

Sean and I discuss:

Distinction, if any, between erotica and pornography.
What distinguishes his erotic work from his mainstream work.
Buying one’s PR before trying to sell it to another.
What compels him to create.
His prominent bisexual characters.
His chosen media — words and images.
What he looks for in the erotic art of others.
His inspirations and his sexual heroes.
What the future holds for him and his work.
His advice for the novice artist/illustrator.

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August 19, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #146 – 08/19/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we travel to Atlanta, GA for some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation. We chat with an amazing woman. She’s pretty as all get out, but don’t let her sweet looks fool you. She is the consummate Fem Domme, I mean right down to the marrow in her bones. But if that’s not enough to turn your crank, she has a multitude of facets to her delightful personality, not least among them being a domestic goddess. And she actually made Dr Dick blush. Not everyone can do that!

Crouching Glasses I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the renowned and nationally respected dominatrix, Lady HotchKiss.

In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Lady HotchKiss and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics including her idyllic family life with her two slaves. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Her 24/7 life as a Dom.
The psychological dimensions of having two slaves.
The prevalence of the Fem/Dom archetype in fashion and the popular culture.
Being a domestic goddess.
M/s protocols.
The symbiotic relationship between Master and slave.
Bottom/sub/slave; not just a question of semantics.

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August 17, 2009May 28, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Sean-Z — Podcast #145 — 08/17/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to one of the most charming and delightful (not to mention absolutely adorable) people I’ve had the pleasure of interviewing to date. He is the fantastic artist, Sean-Z. We had such a good time together; we were constantly breaking up with laughter. And our giggling is so damned infectious; I know you will love him (and his work) as much as I do.

Sean is here as part of The Erotic Mind
series. As you know for the past year I’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the freakin world in an effort to try to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form. Sean’s appearance marks a bit of a milestone for this series. He is the first person of color to join me in this effort. So hurray for that, don’t cha know!

Sean and I discuss:

How his studio, Rated-Z, and his comic, MYTH, got their names.
His evolution as an artist and as an erotic artist.
How he sees himself — artist or illustrator.
The role his imagination plays in his creations.
What happened at Comic-con.
Emerging trends in erotic comics.
His newest effort — Bent Comix Distribution.

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August 12, 2009May 28, 2026

Chris Yosef, Part 2 – Podcast #144 – 08/12/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with Part 2 of my conversation with Chris Yosef. And this is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. It’s where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Part 1 of this chat with Chris was so freakin popular it broke all download records for any podcast during its first week after its posting. Of course I made my mother and her bridge club listen to it over and over to rack up the numbers. Just kidding!

If you some how missed Part 1 of this interesting discussion look for Podcast #142. Use my site’s search function to your right — type in Podcast #142, and presto! But don’t forget to include the # sign.

Chris and I discuss:

The Dom/sub archetype.
Is there such a thing as Dom/sub pheromones?
His far-flung poly-family and the pressures of being so high profile.
Power play with both women and men.
Chris & Tony in the movies.
The Rough Line; real players with an accent on safe sex.

And for an up close and personal view of my guest and his polyamorous family, visit Chris on his blog HERE!

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DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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August 10, 2009May 28, 2026

Craig Sorensen Returns — Podcast #143 — 08/10/09

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Hey sex fans,

I‘m back with Craig Sorensen today. And we’re plumbing the depths of his immense erotic imagination in this series of podcasts called The Erotic Mind.

Craig and I both received such swell feedback on the first part of our interview. So we both want to thank ya’ll for that. But wait; did some of you miss Part 1? When you snooze you loose folks! Ok not to worry, because you can find that podcast by using the search function to your right. Simply type in Podcast #141, and don’t forget the # sign.

Craig and I discuss:

How reading and writing erotica has enriched his life.
Erotica; porn for the people!
Writing both erotica and non-erotic work.
The topics he gravitates toward, those he avoids.
Writing in different genres.
What he looks for in the erotic art of others.
His advice for novice writers of erotica.

This week Craig will also treat us to two delicious pieces of the fruit of his Erotic Mind. You won’t want miss these, people!

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August 5, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Chris Yosef – Podcast #142 – 08/05/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation, people! As you know, this podcast series takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. And today’s guest adds his unique voice to the chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that we have heard from so far.

I have the honor of welcoming an extraordinary fellow, Chris Yosef. He and I will be delving into some of the same things I’ve discussed with others in this series — BDSM, polyamory, porn, spirituality and love — but he speaks from his perspective of a sub in a Dom/sub relationship. And that’s a first for this series.

You won’t want to miss a minute of this exceptional conversation!

Chris and I discuss:

What appears to be a jumble of contradictions in his life.
His immersion in Kabbalah.
Being a collared boy in a D/s relationship.
Safe/Sane/Consensual Power-play.
His public advocacy for RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).
Being a pro-sub, at least in the movies.

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August 3, 2009May 28, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Craig J. Sorensen — Podcast #141 — 08/03/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have an outstanding show in store for you today. We’re back in the world of words in this series of podcasts called The Erotic Mind.

Today I have the pleasure of introducing you to an enormously talented author from the western Pennsylvania, Craig J. Sorensen. Although he is a relative newcomer to erotica, he is a rising star. His fiction can be found in some of the best anthologies as well as published online.