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June 9, 2010June 1, 2026

Tonya Winter, Part 2 – Podcast #211 – 06/09/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today we return to the cavernous workspace of Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. This week’s audio pilgrimage marks Part 2 of our conversation and her highly anticipated return as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation as well as The Erotic Mind podcast series

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #209 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Tonya and I discuss:

Materials and design specifics.
Darlex, Spandex, PVC, Stretch Mesh.
Arm binders & sleep sacks.
Her kinky life.
The unique bondage experience using her materials.
Endorphins & adrenaline.
Power play — bottoming, topping and empathy.
The recreation and cathartic aspects of power play.
Her sexual heroes.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See more of some Tonya’s brilliant work below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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June 7, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Boots Bryant – Podcast #210 – 06/07/10

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Hey sex fans,

We continue our special Pride Month guest star extravaganza today. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a true original in the world of erotic photography, Kevin Johnson, aka Boots Bryant.

Boots is here as part of The Erotic Mind podcast series. In our conversations with noted erotic artists we’ve uncovered quite a bit about the creative process involved in this specialized art form. We’ve visited with numerous artists who create their art in a variety of media. We’ve discovered that the term “erotic art” covers a vast array of visual and literary expressions; some very graphic, others are subtlety suggestive. But all reflect the irrepressible spirit of the human sexual experience.

Boots is first and foremost a photographer, but he is also an erotic author. He shoots mainstream fashion stuff as well as his edgier stuff. But whatever he shoots you can be sure that it will pulse with enormous sexual energy. His photography can be both exquisitely beautiful and stunningly disturbing. And often his images are both of these things at the same time.

Boots and I discuss:

His nom de smut — Boots Bryant
The Mask Series.
His commissioned gigs.
The three new series he’s working on.
His unsettling early life.
Taking up photography as a kid.
How he began to shoot nudes.
Finding his models.
His music hobby.

See some of Boots’ stunning images below.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll fine me in the podcast section, obviously, or just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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June 2, 2010June 1, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tonya Winter – Podcast #209 – 06/02/10

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Hey sex fans,

Ya’ll know June is Gay Pride month, right? And if you don’t believe me, ask President Obama. He made the official declaration again this year on May 28th, 2010. As you may also know, he is the first president in our glorious history to do so. So hurray for him! And an even bigger hurray for all us queer folk on this 41st anniversary of the birth of the modern gay rights movement.

I have a knock-you-out line up of guest for this special month. And to kick things off, so to speak, we take another audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming another Seattle-based personality, the veritable Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. We visit with her in her cavernous new workspace, don’t cha know.

And you should also know that you’re getting a double bang for your buck today, because Tonya is another twofer. She is here as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series as well as The Erotic Mind series. So yeah for that!

Tonya and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
Her new workspace in the SODO district of Seattle.
What accounts for her remarkable success.
Her unique designs.
Her humble kinky beginnings.
Her commitment to community service.
Her creative process.
Her secret grand plan.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See some of Tonya’s brilliant work.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 26, 2010June 1, 2026

More of ToyWithMe Sandy – Podcast #208 – 05/26/10

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Hey sex fans,

We welcome back our friend, Sandy, the self-acclaimed madam of the wonderfully wacky ToyWithMe website, for Part 2 of her appearance on this the SEX WISDOM podcast series. There is more of her signature wit and charming insight in store for you today, so look out!

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #206 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Sandy and I discuss:

Sex toys and health concerns.
Safe and body-friendly toys.
Toys that enhance a couple’s play.
The sex toy double standard.
Kids, sex and sex education.
The parents’ role in sex education.
Keeping things fresh and sexy in a long-term relationship.
Infusing passion by reading erotica aloud to each other.
Her inspirations.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 24, 2010June 1, 2026

Big Fat Q&A Show — Podcast #207 — 05/24/10

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Hey sex fans,

We take a bit of a break from The Erotic Mind podcast series today to attend to the unsightly buildup in both my voicemail and email in-boxes. And you know there’s nothing more embarrassing that unsightly buildup in your box, huh?

Josh shoots meth in his dick. But there’s been an accident.
Jen has a BF that can’t get her off.
Brandi has been going along for the ride for 10 years!
Coral is starving to death…sexually.
Billy is in the throws of andropause and he’s clueless.
Betty’s vibrator broke…inside her!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 19, 2010June 1, 2026

SEX WISDOM with ToyWithMe Sandy – Podcast #206 – 05/19/10

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Hey sex fans,

I have an exceptionally interesting guest to introduce to you today. She joins us as part of the SEX WISDOM podcast series, don’t cha know. This is the series where we chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

I have the pleasure of introducing you to one such pundit, the founder of the wildly popular sex blog, ToyWithMe. She prefers to go by the name Sandy, so we’ll just humor her on that, ok? And let’s just say that she’s the madam of the wacky ToyWithMe cathouse. As you may recall, we’ve already met one of that site’s famous inmates — Becky Sherrick Harks of Mommy Wants Vodka fame in Podcasts #186 & #188.

Sandy and I have a wide-ranging and freewheeling chat about a bunch of timely sexual topics. And like her site, she keeps the conversation funny as well as informative.

Sandy and I discuss:

Handling the writing talent and the twitter account.
“I have a vagina and I’m not afraid to use it” and “Nothing Risqué, Nothing Gained”.
Early onset of menopause and the changes it brought to her life.
The ToyWithMe audience.
Her writers and their fans.
Being overwhelmed by the change of life.
A good sex life enhances self-esteem.
The effort involved in rebuilding her libido.
Talking to a partner about menopause.
Andropause.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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May 17, 2010June 1, 2026

Justin Thai Returns — Podcast #205 — 05/17/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back today to delve further into The Erotic Mind of the very talented photographer, Justin Thai. This is Part 2 of our chat and we pick up precisely where we left off at this time last week.

If you somehow missed last week’s show, don’t worry. You can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. Look for the search function in the sidebar to your right, type in Podcast #204 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you search.

Justin and I discuss:

Where and how he finds his models.
Cultural sensitivities involved in shooting in Asia.
His passion for photography.
His focus on Asian male beauty.
Capturing the sexual fantasies of his models.
His inspirations and his sexual heroes.

Justin invites you to visit him on his website HERE!

See more of Justin’s beautiful work below.

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May 10, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Justin Thai — Podcast #204 — 05/10/10

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Hey sex fans,

For the last two weeks we visited with an extraordinary literary artist. This week we begin a chat with an extraordinary visual artist. Yes siree, this is The Erotic Mind podcast series, where we chat with ingenious erotic artists of every stripe from all over the freakin world. And all these conversations revolve around one simple principle — uncovering something of the creative process involved with this specialized art form.

Today my guest is the very talented photographer, Justin Thai. And his appearance here marks a milestone. Justin is the first Asian person to join me in this, or any of my podcast series. So hurray for that, don’t cha know!

Justin and I discuss:

Photography with an accent on sensuality.
Capturing his model’s personality.
His focus is on the softer side of his models.
The thinking man’s photography.
Shooting abstract, fashion, nude, portrait and travel photography.
Modesty and sexuality.
The progression of his erotic work.
Trying to capture a sexual fantasy.
His mission: to raise HIV/AIDS awareness.
Coming to the US from Vietnam at age 16.

Justin invites you to visit him on his website HERE!

See some of Justin’s beautiful work.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

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May 3, 2010June 1, 2026

Heidi Champa Returns — Podcast #203 — 05/03/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back today with The Erotic Mind of a true original, the charming and smutty Heidi Champa. This is Part 2 of our chat and we pick up precisely where we left off last week.

And here’s fantastic news! Part 1 of my chat with Heidi, which appeared last week at this time, is officially the most popular interview podcast to date. It broke all download records for a podcast in a single week. So yay for that!

If you somehow missed last week’s show, don’t worry. You can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. Look for the search function in the sidebar to your right, type in Podcast #202 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you search.

Heidi will read another provocative selection from the fruit of her Erotic Mind. And here’s a tip, if you have a shoe fetish or a spanking fetish; this reading will make you wet.

Heidi and I discuss:

Writing for different audiences.
Responding to calls for submission.
Writing gay themed fiction.
Her writing rituals and routines.
How she gets warmed up to write.
Is erotica empowering?
The therapeutic role of erotica.
Her inspirations and her sexual heroes.
Advice for novice writers.

Heidi invites you to visit her on her website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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April 26, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Heidi Champa — Podcast #202 — 04/26/10

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Hey sex fans,

After the last couple of weeks of nothing but Q&A, I am so happy to get back to The Erotic Mind podcast series today. And boy, do I ever have an exceptionally charming…and I might add smutty…guest for you to meet. I’m delighted to welcome Heidi Champa to the show.

Today we travel to the wilds of south-central Pennsylvania to spend some time with Heidi in her natural habitat. We discover that lurking behind her mild-mannered and unassuming exterior there is an erotic powerhouse. We also discover that she is just hitting her stride as a published author. So look out world! Which only reinforces my belief that there is a creative erotic impulse hidden in all of us; that once let loose it will transform us and our world. Exciting stuff this, sex fans!

And to show you what I mean, Heidi will read a tantalizing selection from the fruit of her Erotic Mind. It’ll make you want to touch yourself impurely; I promise.

Heidi and I discuss: