— And How To Tell if You Have It

BDE isn’t literal—it’s a state of mind.
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Sex Advice With An Edge

WHAT DO IDRIS Elba, Stanley Tucci, Jeff Goldblum, and Rihanna all have in common? BDE—or “big dick energy”—according to people on … Continue reading
Ya’ll are gotta get a load of this. It’s rare that one person can generate an entire column with his email exchange, but that’s what happened this month. The curious thing is that I was already preparing a column about