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September 23, 2009May 28, 2026

Claire Adams, Part 2 — Podcast #155 — 09/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

The amazing Claire Adams returns with more of her special brand of Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is Part 2 of our chat and we’ll be discussing a lot of things including her bondage porn career.

bl51a6va As you know, in this podcast series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And no one fits this bill better than Claire.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #153. Simply use my site’s search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #153, but don’t forget the # sign.

Claire and I discuss:

Fem-Dom — male-submission.
The intricacies of Bondage Porn.
Bondage as a means to an end and as an end in itself.
Her role preferences for Dom or sub.
The corresponding highs and lows of each role.
Endorphins and adrenaline.
Top-drop and bottom-drop.
Archetypes and predispositions.
The need for chemistry with potential play partners.
Her sexual heroes.

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September 21, 2009May 28, 2026

Leanne Bell Returns — Podcast #154 — 09/21/09

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Hey sex fans,

It’s the Equinox everybody! The relentless march of time brings us yet another change in the seasons. Isn’t it amazing? It seems like the solstice was only a few weeks ago. Well it’s autumn here in the northern hemisphere, and that’s my favorite season. So I’m looking forward to what’s to come. I hope you feel the same.

Pumpkins4Sale150_sample As you know, last week I had the pleasure of introducing you to a superb photographer from Ontario Canada, Leanne Bell . This is Part 2 of our chat for The Erotic Mind series. Where we converse with noted erotic artists of every stripe in an effort to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form.

If you somehow missed Part 1, there’s no need to worry. You’ll just have to look for last week’s show, podcast #152. And you can do that by using my site’s search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #152 and presto! But don’t forget the # sign.

Leanne and I discuss:

Being a female photographer who shoots women.
The feedback she gets from her models.
Who is her audience.
The importance of the visual.
How she got her start as a photographer; as a photographer of nudes.
Shooting with her husband.
Where she finds her models.
The future of BodyInMind.com.

And for more of Leanne’s thoughts and vision, I encourage you to visit her website HERE.

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September 16, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Claire Adams — Podcast #153 — 09/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

As I mentioned at the beginning of Monday’s podcast, over the next two weeks, and on both Mondays and Wednesdays, I will be featuring two absolutely amazing women in my podcasts. Both of these very talented women are taking a lead role in helping change our society’s perception of female sexuality and the gift of physical beauty. And each is doing it from what might, at first glance, appear to be the polar opposite of the other. But I believe appearances can be deceiving.

MsAdamsBio On Monday I introduced you to the ultimate photographer of the female nude, Leanne Bell, as part of The Erotic Mind series. Today, as part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation series, I have the pleasure of welcoming the internationally renowned teacher, BDSM advocate and on camera performer, Pro-Dom, pro-sub, bondage master, and video director, Claire Adams. She’s here to share something of her amazing life with us.

Both of my guests are extraordinarily passionate women who are completely immersed in their work. And their fervor is infused by a philosophy of empowerment and the beauty of women as full-fledged sexual beings. These podcasts are not to be missed!

Claire and I discuss:

Her real life as a rope bottom, submissive and slave.
ClaireBondage.com — a unique mix of porn and BDSM.
Bondage games and predicament bondage.
Being a collared sub,
RACK — Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
Claire the contortionist.
How se began her life in kink.
Damon & Claire, purveyors of high quality rope kits.
Her life as a Pro-Dom and her ability to switch between Dom and sub roles.

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September 14, 2009May 28, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Leanne Bell — Podcast #152 — 09/14/09

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Hey sex fans,

helen_green_0027_sample Over the next two weeks, and in both of my podcast series on Mondays and Wednesdays, I will be featuring two absolutely amazing women. Both of these very talented women are taking a lead role in helping change our society’s perception of female sexuality and the gift of physical beauty. And each is doing it from what might, at first glance, appear to be the polar opposite of the other. I love my work! You’ll just have to tune in on both days to see what I mean.

Today I have the honor of introducing you to an exquisite photographer from Ontario Canada. We scrutinize The Erotic Mind of Leanne Bell. She, along with her equally talented husband, Dwayne, takes the photography of women to a new level of simplicity and sophistication. They unabashedly celebrate female physical beauty in the most extraordinary and riveting way. It’s as if they dress their models in nudity. You won’t want to miss a moment of this intriguing conversation.

Leanne and I discuss:

Her photography being both eye candy and mind candy.
The apparent contradiction of nudity and moral values.
The art of poising her models in everyday situations.
Nudity as an organic part of the photograph.
Cultural opposition to celebrating female physical beauty.
The gift of beauty and how it is often denigrated.

And for more of Leanne’s thoughts and vision, I encourage you to visit her website HERE.

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September 9, 2009May 28, 2026

Sylvia O’Stayformore, Part 2 – Podcast #151 – 09/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

naughtySylvia We’re back with the toast of the Emerald City, Sylvia O’Stayformore and more of her charming Sex EDGE-U-cation. There’s nothing like the wisdom of a drag queen to put all this sex, sexuality and gender stuff into perspective, don’t cha know.

Did you somehow miss Part 1 of this enjoyable conversation? Well, all ya have to do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #150 and PRESTO! You’ll find last week’s show. But when you do your search, don’t forget to include the # sign.

Sylvia and I discuss:

Becoming Sylvia and her signature look.
Crossdressing; compulsion or recreation.
The difference between a drag queen and a female impersonator.
If there is a hormonal or genetic component to crossdressing.
The skill involved in being a drag queen.

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September 3, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Sylvia O’Stayformore – Podcast #150 – 09/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

This week we gonna get some pretty delightful Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is, of course, the podcast series that looks at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. My guests have included prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And today I am proud to add another category to that list today — Entertainers.

DSCN7819 Yes siree, buckaroos, my guest is the one and only Sylvia O’Stayformore. She is the toast of the Emerald City, don’t cha know. She is my friend, a brilliant drag performer and a laugh riot on stage and off. She has tickled my fancy on several occasions, if ya know what I mean.

And guess what? I even had the good fortune to co-host a live sex show with Sylvia a couple years ago. As a special treat, I’ve added that video to this posting; scroll down to find it. Be sure to check it out, cuz it has a naked man in it; and happily he ain’t me.

Sylvia and I discuss:

Her humble beginnings.
Crossdressing vs. transvestism.
Crossdressing and drag.
Her own personal journey and her activism.
Women drag queens? Who knew!
Reasons why people crossdress, and the challenges.
The sexual charge of gender specific clothing.
Getting hit on as Sylvia.
Common myths of crossdressing.
Advice for parents of crossdressing kids.

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August 26, 2009May 28, 2026

More Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #148 – 08/26/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with that delicious Georgia peach, Lady HotchKiss, for more of her unique Sex EDGE-U-cation. In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. But you know that already, huh?

Attitude Did you somehow miss last week’s show? That’s a pity! Because Lady HotchKiss spilled the beans about her life with her two slaves. Does that peak your interest? I thought it would. You’ll find last week’s podcast by using my site’s search function in the sidebar. Type in Podcast #146, but be sure to include the #sign.

I’m so lovin this conversation, because Lady HotchKiss is bendin’ my mind big time. This week we shift gears a bit; Lady HotchKiss takes us on a little tour of her Pro-Dom life. We get way more eye-opening chat and loads of laughs too. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Pro-Dom activities —
——Interrogation to medical play; tickling to slave training.
BDSM etiquette and protocols.
Sexuality/Genitality/Power play.
Tips for the novice kinkster.
What newbies need to know.
Care to “munch”?
The need for kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

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August 24, 2009May 28, 2026

Sean-Z Returns — Podcast #147 — 08/24/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with the oh so charming visual artist, Sean-Z. This is Part 2 of our enlightening conversation. Did you somehow miss Part 1? Not to worry! Use the search function on the sidebar, type in Podcast #145 and Presto! But don’t forget to include the #sign when you do the search.

Sean shares his thoughts on numerous topics surrounding his erotic creations as part of The Erotic Mind podcast series. As you know, I’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the place in an effort to try to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form. And Sean does not disappoint. Besides being terribly thought provoking, he is also amazingly funny. Brains, talent and a sense of humor; oh baby, oh baby, you make me so hot!

Sean and I discuss:

Distinction, if any, between erotica and pornography.
What distinguishes his erotic work from his mainstream work.
Buying one’s PR before trying to sell it to another.
What compels him to create.
His prominent bisexual characters.
His chosen media — words and images.
What he looks for in the erotic art of others.
His inspirations and his sexual heroes.
What the future holds for him and his work.
His advice for the novice artist/illustrator.

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August 19, 2009May 28, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #146 – 08/19/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we travel to Atlanta, GA for some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation. We chat with an amazing woman. She’s pretty as all get out, but don’t let her sweet looks fool you. She is the consummate Fem Domme, I mean right down to the marrow in her bones. But if that’s not enough to turn your crank, she has a multitude of facets to her delightful personality, not least among them being a domestic goddess. And she actually made Dr Dick blush. Not everyone can do that!

Crouching Glasses I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the renowned and nationally respected dominatrix, Lady HotchKiss.

In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Lady HotchKiss and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics including her idyllic family life with her two slaves. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Her 24/7 life as a Dom.
The psychological dimensions of having two slaves.
The prevalence of the Fem/Dom archetype in fashion and the popular culture.
Being a domestic goddess.
M/s protocols.
The symbiotic relationship between Master and slave.
Bottom/sub/slave; not just a question of semantics.

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August 17, 2009May 28, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Sean-Z — Podcast #145 — 08/17/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to one of the most charming and delightful (not to mention absolutely adorable) people I’ve had the pleasure of interviewing to date. He is the fantastic artist, Sean-Z. We had such a good time together; we were constantly breaking up with laughter. And our giggling is so damned infectious; I know you will love him (and his work) as much as I do.

Sean is here as part of The Erotic Mind
series. As you know for the past year I’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the freakin world in an effort to try to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form. Sean’s appearance marks a bit of a milestone for this series. He is the first person of color to join me in this effort. So hurray for that, don’t cha know!