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January 6, 2010May 30, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Voluptuous Lynn – Podcast #177 – 01/06/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re ready to rock and roll with a brand new year of podcasts in the Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know these programs take a look at the fascinating world of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles, fetish sex and kink. We touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And you can count on our investigations to be interesting, stimulating as well as very informative, because we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates from all walks of life.

And to kick off this new year, I have something quite extraordinary for you. Today, we feature the first woman of color to speak in this series. She is a sex worker. She brings a refreshingly honest, unique and sassy voice to the ever-growing chorus of exceptional guests in this series. I am honored to welcome Voluptuous Lynn.

She describes herself as “An Ebony Cougar In Sin City,” but I think you will agree with me that she’s more akin to a tiger. Her no nonsense approach to life, sexuality and sex work if truly refreshing, and she’s knock ‘em dead funny too. Oh, and you should know that today’s show is unusually long. Lynn and I got to shootin’ the shit and I completely lost track of time.

Lynn and I discuss:

Flying in the face of the culture’s notion of female beauty.
Leaving the vanilla world for sex work.
The life of this cam-girl and phone sex operator.
Being public about her work.
The impact of her sex work on her personal relationships.
Role playing with clients.
Advice for getting into sex work.
How she prepares herself, emotionally and physically for her job.

Lynn at work and play.

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January 4, 2010May 29, 2026

The Erotic Mind with DL King — Podcast #176 — 01/04/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re BAACK! It’s a brand new year! And while I enjoyed my brief respite from podcasting, I’m eager to get back at it. During the break, these last two weeks, I’ve been busy lining up an amazing array of outstanding guest who will make 2010 a banner year.

We open the new year with yet another addition to The Erotic Mind podcast series. And speaking of outstanding guests, I have the pleasure of welcoming a true master of the erotic short story and novel, the one and only DL King.

If you know anything about erotica, her name will stand out as a beacon of excellence in the genre. On top of being a world-class author and editor, DL also publishes an erotica book review site called Erotica Revealed. But don’t let all these high-faultin’ credentials fool you, because she is brilliantly funny and smutty as all get out.

DL and I discuss:

Who is DL King?
Her site Erotica Revealed.
The need for thoughtful criticism about the erotic in literature.
Her numerous publications, both hard copy and web-based.
The joy of makin’ ‘em laugh and cum at the same time.
Joining her writer’s group.

As a special treat, DL will treat us to a mouth-watering selection of the fruit of her Erotic Mind. You won’t want miss this, people!

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December 9, 2009May 29, 2026

Andrea Zanin, Part 2 – Podcast #174 – 12/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I bring you the very last word in the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series for 2009. We will be back with a slew of other prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions the first Wednesday of the New Year. But in the meantime, we go out with a bang. The brilliant and oh so charming Andrea Zanin is back with us to conclude the chat we began last week.

You didn’t miss Part 1 of this insightful conversation, did you? If ya snooze ya lose! Actually, that’s not completely true, because all of my podcast are archived on my site. Use the search function to your right, type in Podcast #172 and Voilà. Just remember to include the #sign when you do your search.

Andrea and I discuss:

A working definition of polyamory.
Her poly life.
The sociology behind the monogamous heterosexual, reproductive pair.
Marriage and queer folk.
Changing attitudes toward polyamory in the popular culture.
The connection, if any, between poly and other nontraditional sexual expressions.
Coming out as poly or kinky.
The right to culturally competent healing and helping care.

For more of Andrea check out her website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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December 2, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Andrea Zanin – Podcast #172 – 12/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

Back in early February of this year I launched this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation. I promised back then that this series would take a look at the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink. We’d touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I remember telling that I could guarantee that our investigation will be interesting, stimulating and very informative, because we would be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Well then, here we are ten months later and we’re still going strong. My first guest in this series, Dart, introduced me to today’s guest way back in February. But its only now that I finally have this opportunity to introduce her to you. Join me in welcoming the amazing Andrea Zanin. She is my last guest in this series for 2009, and she’s a humdinger, don’t cha know.

Andrea is also from Toronto, as is Dart, and like him she is internationally known and respected. She’s a writer and educator within the queer, polyamory and BDSM/leather communities. And she bring a unique voice to this ever growing chorus of exceptional guests in this series.

Andrea and I discuss:

Her life as a grad student, community activist, teacher and writer.
Being a sex geek and blogging since 2006.
Her site being a virtual graduate course in human sexuality.
Presenting on college campuses.
Being a leather dyke and being a judge for leather contests.
Power play, BDSM and fetishes.
The currency of power, consent and negotiations.
Being a Dom in power play and a switch in sensation play.

You can visit Andrea on her website HERE!

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November 25, 2009May 29, 2026

Tony Buff, Part 2 – Podcast #170 – 11/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

It’s the day before Thanksgiving and I have the holiday treat you’ve all been waiting for. Porn star, activist, educator, rigger and Dom. Tony Buff, Is back with us for more of his unique Sex EDGE-U-cation.

Part 1 of my chat with Tony, which appeared last week at this time, is the most popular interview podcast to date. It broke all download records for a single podcast in a single week, so yea for that. But wait, did you somehow miss last week’s installment? We’ll that’s just not right! But don’t worry; you can make it up. All my podcasts are archived right here. All ya have to do is use the site’s search function to your right; type in Podcast #168 and presto! Don’t forget the #sign when you do your search

Tony and I discuss:

His fan base that includes loads of kinky women.
His polyamorous relations that includes Derek da Silva and Chris Yosef.
Open, honest communication the key to relationship success.
Power Play — how he started and his life now.
Being a power switch.
Exhilaration of creating scenes for his sub.
Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
The importance of working with sex positive & kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

Be sure to visit Tony on his kick-ass site HERE!

More of Tony & friends at work and play.

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November 23, 2009May 29, 2026

Kevin Keck Returns — Podcast #169 — 11/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

The hilarious Kevin Keck is back with us again this week. And we are treated to an even more intimate look into The Erotic Mind of this enormously talented essayist, poet, teacher and comedic genus than we got last week. As you know, this is the podcast series where noted erotic artists of every stripe come to talk to us about the creative process involved with this specialized art form. Kevin’s insights are both humorous and poignant, and not to be missed.

You did hear last week’s show, right? If ya didn’t that’s ok, because Part 1 of our chat is archived right here on my site. Simply use the search function to your right. Type in Podcast #167 and voilà! But hey, don’t forget to use the #sign when you search.

Kevin and I discuss:

People’s response to his confessional sex writing.
The universality of awkward sexual moments.
When sexuality goes awry.
Happening truth, story truth and emotional truth.
Self-consciousness about bodily functions.
The work of Rachel Kramer Bussel.
Being the father of identical twin daughters.
His father to son talk about girls.
Telling stories that entertain.
How sexual issues creep into his other writing.

Kevin treats us to a brief reading of his work during our conversation, but I think we deserve even more. So I’ve taken the liberty of tacking on an audio clip of Kevin reading a full segment of the fruit of his Erotic Mind. Stay tuned after the show for this extraordinary treat.

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November 18, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tony Buff – Podcast #168 – 11/18/09

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Hey sex fans,

Did you miss me last week? I know, I know; it was beyond my control. Sorry to disappoint. But, to make it up to you, I have the real deal for you today. That’s right, we’re gonna get some mighty impressive Sex EDGE-U-cation from one of the luminaries of gay porn. I’m talkin big, big star here people, and that’s both literally and figuratively, if ya catch my drift.

I have the pleasure of welcoming a tireless activist, compelling educator, masterful rigger and superb Dom. He also directs as well as performs in his signature line of critically acclaimed fetish movies. He is the one and only Tony Buff.

If you know anything about BDSM, rope bondage or power play, you will probably know his name. And if you are a connoisseur of cutting edge smut, well then, I know you are a huge fan of this amazing man, just like me.

Tony brings the same intensity and focus of his on screen performances to this interview. And he adds his unique voice to the ever-growing chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that is this podcast series.

Tony and I discuss:

Body double, or just a cock double?
The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
His on screen persona being the same as his off screen persona.
How he got his start in porn.
The workshops he and Derek da Silva present together.
His mentors — Max and Monk.
His collaboration with Titan Media, The Rough Line.
Challenges, opportunities and the future of porn.
The bareback phenomenon.
A More Nuanced Position.

Be sure to visit Tony on his kick-ass site HERE!

Tony & friends at work and play.

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November 16, 2009May 29, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Kevin Keck — Podcast #167 — 11/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more of The Erotic Mind podcast series. Over the last year and half, we’ve spent numerous hours with talented authors who have talked with us about their creations — erotic short story or novels. Today we diverge a bit from our standard fair to broaden that perspective to include another type of sex writing — the memoir.

I am honored to welcome one of the shining lights of this genre, an enormously talented essayist, poet, teacher and comedic genus, Kevin Keck. He is the author of three critically acclaimed memoirs, each brilliantly funny and smutty as all get out.

He’s been knocking audiences dead with reading from his work, both in personal appearances and on the radio. And I am happy to report that he will treat us in the same vile manner. Kevin will read two hilarious selections of the fruit of his Erotic Mind. You’ll be laughing out loud as he reveals strange and embarrassing details about his sex life.

Kevin and I discuss:

Life’s ultimate (and immediate) purpose.
Living in North Carolina
What some have called “his absurd sexual history”.
Writing t to make people laugh.
His ill-fated priestly vocation.
The dichotomy between the sacred and profane, the spiritual and sexual.
Writing as a kid and discovering the comedic value of sex.
Disclosing personal sexual discoveries in his work.

Kevin has been knocking audiences dead with reading from his work, in personal appearances and on the radio. And I am happy to report that he will treat us in the same vile manner. Kevin will read two hilarious selections of the fruit of his Erotic Mind. You’ll be laughing out loud as he reveals strange and embarrassing details about his sex life.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

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November 4, 2009May 29, 2026

Cunning Minx, Part 2 – Podcast #165 – 11/04/09

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Hey sex fans,

Sheeee’s BACK! That’s right, kids; the master (or mistress, if you please) of all things polyamory — the delightful and oh so wise, Cunning Minx, is here again to finish the conversation we began at this time last week.

Gauging from the comments I’ve received about last week’s podcast, you’ve been chomping on the bit, as have I, for her speedy return with more of her exceptional Sex EDGE-U-cation.

But wait, did you somehow miss Part 1 of this insightful lesson on polyamory? Well, not to worry, buckaroos! Last week’s podcast, like all my podcasts, is archived right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #163 and Voilà! But don’t forget to include the #sign when you search.

Minx and I discuss:

How poly differs from plural marriage and polygamy.
Blurred lines between poly and swinging.
Swinging a heterosexual phenomenon.
Social monogamy, pair bonding, and extra-pair coupling.
Evolving attitudes toward poly in the popular culture.
The connection between being poly and other sexual expressions.
Advice for coming out as poly.
Finding poly-friendly healing and helping professionals.
Poly resources: What, like, two girlfriends? and Polyamory In The News.

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November 2, 2009May 29, 2026

Steve MacIsaac Returns — Podcast #164 — 11/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

It time for more of The Erotic Mindof that fantastic artist, illustrator and erotic comics creator, Steve MacIsaac. He’s here to continue the conversation we began last week. You didn’t miss that show, did you? If ya snooze, ya lose! No wait; that’s not true. All my podcasts are archived on my site; so you can wander all over the last three years and pick up slew of juicy interviews, a load of stimulating Q&A sessions as well as other sexually enriching programming.

To find Part 1 of my discussion with Steve, simply use the search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in podcast #162 and PRESTO! But don’t forget to use the #sign when you search.

Steve and I discuss: